LonelyinOhio Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 we dated for 8 months - said all the "i love you", etc....it was a strong relationship, from where I was sitting. She broke it off 12 weeks ago. No contact during that time, so I had no idea what she was up to - but I was in severe emotional pain. Just found out she met a guy on some web site a month later. Got engaged a month after that. Sold everything - house, car, everything - and moved to the other side of the country just a few weeks ago to live with him. My mind is reeling to make sense of this one - anyone ? Any similar experiences out there ? this is like something I'd expect to read about in some magazine article or something. But it happened to me.
littlepiggy1 Posted April 13, 2006 Posted April 13, 2006 Thing is, you could probably come up with a million different scenarios in your head. And drive yourself crazy is the process. I've known people that would change relationships almost as often as people would change socks. Including engagements, marriages, you name it. It could be a sign of depression. Some people, when depressed, try to rid themselves of their old life. Like starting over will solve their problems. Or maybe she just met the man of her dreams and will live happily ever after. Who knows, really? You knew her better than anyone else here. You should be at least a little familiar with her past to know if this is something she would be likely to do or completely off the wall. But ultimately, you're no longer in her life and she's no longer in yours. So try not to dwell, as difficult as that may be.
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