Guest Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 I'm 19 and started dating a my boyfriend about a year ago. The guy is absolutely great, but something terrible happened. I've been hanging out at my boyfriend's house a lot lately, probably an hour or two a day. He lives with his parents who are very wealthy (Dad is a plastic surgeon) in this big beautiful house. I've talked to his Dad on many occasions and he has always been very friendly, nothing seemed strange. Well, I was supposed to meet my bf at his place after he got off work one day, but work kept him a little late, so when I got there, he wasn't there yet. His dad was home and told me to come on in and just wait for my bf. It was just me and his dad alone in the house and he sat next to me on the couch, which I thought was a little odd, because they have two couches and two chairs in their living room. We started talking and sort of randomly he said, "You're such a beautiful girl, what are you doing with my son?" and I just sort of laughed, but was VERY uncomfortable. Then he says "He knows nothing about women." At this point, I am getting weird-ed out. He looks and me really dirrectly in the eyes and puts his freakin hand on my knee cap (which was bear since I was wearing a skirt) and slids it up my leg and actually touches....you know...things only his son touches. I jumped up, screamed then started crying hysterically. I didn't know what to do, so I just ran outside to my car. He followed me and was yelling "I didn't mean it that way." That was three days ago and I haven't seen my boyfriend since. He's been calling and I've just told him I have to work. What do I do?!? I don't want to tell him, but I don't ever hide anything from him. I freakin go shopping with his mom! We're friends! I feel sooooo bad for her. I know I did nothing wrong, but I feel guilty and like there can never be a future to our relationship. What do I do?
Guest Posted April 13, 2006 Posted April 13, 2006 I had a situation similiar, except it was my father-in-law. He told me that his son does not treat me right, I am a beautiful woman, and oh yea, he has had wild and crazy sex dreams about me! EWW! I didnt tell my husband for a while, after his dad told me not to. It ate me up inside, I didnt know what to do. So, I told my husband I had something I had to tell him, but it was a secret and he had to PROMISE me that he would not tell anyone. He agreed. I told him and he was pissed at his dad. But, he didnt say anything to him like he promised. Men are better at keeping secrets, I think. Anyway, time passed and he is over it and so am I. Yes, its wierd, but the feeling will go away. GL
Bryanp Posted April 13, 2006 Posted April 13, 2006 Hello, I think you should definately tell your boyfriend as soon as possible. I would also tell his mother. This guy is a predator and he sexually attacked you. What a slimebag. You are making your boyfriend suffer by not talking to him and telling him what happened. Your boyfriend needs to know what a pervert this guy is. You will be doing your boyfriend a great service by telling him about his father so he can prepare himself in the future. Your boyfriend deserves your honesty. I wish you luck.
catgirl1927 Posted April 13, 2006 Posted April 13, 2006 I would tell him immediately. Poor guy. You are probably not the first this has happened to. And BE SURE you are never alone with that guy.
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