tinktronik Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 No one is too busy to make a 15 minute phone call. I'm sorry, if your day is so jam-packed that you can't at least call while you're taking a crap, you have time management issues. I totally have time management issues.Lish, sorry your guy hasn't called , I'd move on to greener pastures.
FataMorgana Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 Mr Driveby tried to get it back on and I kicked him to the curb! What goes around comes around! good to hear! good on you, so glad you finally managed to do that!
Author Lishy Posted April 12, 2006 Author Posted April 12, 2006 I have changed my attitude towards men and romance - No guy is too busy to make a call and if anyone ever rang and said sorry I have not called I have been too busy I would say "Yeah right and the pope is jewish!" I hate that excuse as that is all it is .... A flimsy excuse! I am not that bothered anyway, there are plenty more fish in the sea - And when I look back i didnt give him much encouragment to call me (I didnt reply when he mentioned calling me) as my guards are so high up!
electric_sheep Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 Really there is no way to know what is going on Lishy. It's possible he is really shy. It's possible his cousin just died. It's possible he got mugged and his wallet stolen (with your number). Maybe he got in a car crash and is in the hospital. It's possible he got back together with his x-girlfriend. It's possible he thinks YOU are not interested, since as you say, your guards are so high up. Maybe he is nervous about calling, and keeps putting it off, but will call you tomarrow. The list goes on and on ...
Author Lishy Posted April 12, 2006 Author Posted April 12, 2006 Yes that is all possible - But not likely! I shouldnt think of reasons why I should just think that he hasnt called because he hasnt wanted to!
Art_Critic Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 It's possible he is really shy. It's possible his cousin just died. It's possible he got mugged and his wallet stolen (with your number). Maybe he got in a car crash and is in the hospital. ...... Lets see.. he wasn't too shy to neck with her all night and sleep on the couch with her.. His cousin didn't just die.. come on and he still has his wallet.. Well .. if he was in a car crash he won't remember who you are anyhow. These are just being thrown out there for no real reason.. They have no basis
Author Lishy Posted April 12, 2006 Author Posted April 12, 2006 I agree that it has no basis - I do not want to hear what makes me feel better I want to hear the truth, however hurtful it is! Actually I am not hurt as I dont like him enough for him to hurt me - I only met the guy once! But I still like to get opinions straight from the hip! If he wants to call he will and if he doesnt want to he wont! There is a high chance he is embarressed incase I blank him and I know all of his friends so that COULD be stopping him! Either way I wont die and I wont think about it too much!
alphamale Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 If he wants to call he will and if he doesnt want to he wont! why don't you talk with your girlfriend and find out what the deal is...
Author Lishy Posted April 12, 2006 Author Posted April 12, 2006 What do you mean by that Alpha? Both of my friends think that he could feel a bit embarressed to call in case I blank him and then tell my friends - He does not know me.
alphamale Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 What do you mean by that Alpha? you said he dated your friend and that he and her are still friends. why don't you contact her and find out what happened???
Author Lishy Posted April 12, 2006 Author Posted April 12, 2006 I could get her to call him and say that I was interested and for him to call but I wont! If he said to her that he just didnt want to call I would feel sick and right now I cant deal with rejection! I know its crazy but right now that is where I am at! This is also a guy who lives close to me and I could see at any time!
catgirl1927 Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 In my experience, if a guy wants to talk to you, he calls you. He finds the time. I would write this one off. Personally, if a guy doesn't call within a day or two then I write him off. If some jerk waited 7 days to call, I wouldn't even pick up. I don't want to waste time on little kids who play power games. That high school crap doesn't fly with me!!!
Author Lishy Posted April 12, 2006 Author Posted April 12, 2006 Yes I agree Catgirl - If he wanted to, he would!
HotCaliGirl Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 If someone i give my number to doesn't call within 3 days, i might get a little sad at first if i was really interested in him, but i then automatically lose interest because that's not the type of neglectful person i'd want to be in a relationship with. When they finally call I immediately say "sorry i can't talk now" and hang up. If they call again, I say "i'm no longer interested." and click hang up, that's the end of that. Be careful when you do this because for some reason it triggers a lose switch in some and they get on a mission to change your mind about them, so it's always scary not knowing who you give ur number to...i like BO's idea - it's perfect - but like the other person said i doubt i'd ever get the nerve to make the first call myself!
Author Lishy Posted April 13, 2006 Author Posted April 13, 2006 No way could I make that first call! I will forget this guy now! He has blown it and its a shame really! Hey ho! NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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