Geminieyez Posted April 11, 2006 Posted April 11, 2006 What does it take for you to come back to the one that loves you when they've hurt you? I mean like if you lied and apologize and everything and want them back?
blue636 Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 What does it take? If you've hurt someone, all it takes is for them to forgive you and want you back. But that's entirely up to the other person, not the offender.
Butterflying Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 Are you asking, what does it take to go back to a person after you've hurt them. Or are you asking, what does it take to go back to a person who has hurt you?
Author Geminieyez Posted April 12, 2006 Author Posted April 12, 2006 what does it take for a person to come back in your life after you've hurt them?
Walk Posted April 12, 2006 Posted April 12, 2006 I'm going to assume the OP meant what 'would it take to get the person the OP hurt back'. An epiphany. Profound understanding of the deeper consequences behind your actions. A life altering event. Understanding fully why your actions were wrong, and not simply because your toy got taken away. An incredible, nearly inhuman amount of effort to change the underlying mentality that caused the hurt. Following through with your promises past completion and into steps that will further your growth and development. Adopting, believing, and strictly following an honorable path. Of doing what is right, even if it seems too hard, without any expectation of reward or "winning" the other person back. Hollow promises and apologise will get you absolutely no where.
agnf666 Posted April 13, 2006 Posted April 13, 2006 You have to try to establish and little bit of trust with that person agian. You have to let them know that you did hurt them and that you are sorry about it. There is no amount of apologizes that can fix things. If you hurt them... I don't think he/she will be coming back to you. You need to go to them and talk to her about it.
Author Geminieyez Posted April 13, 2006 Author Posted April 13, 2006 Do you think that will actually help by talking to them in person? I know it would hurt for them to even face you.What if I wait to see if he will call back? Its been a month now, I don't know what else to do.He said he had the situation with me and his car accident situation that he has to worry about and somethings hes not worried about right now and that he's trying to get himself together, what he saying?
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