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How long is a long-term relationship?


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Just wonderin'. :cool:

 

Alpha said something in another thread about swearing off LTRs as well as marriage ;):laugh: , and it got me thinking...how long is long, anyway? More than a year? Two years? Or is it just "long-term" once it gets to the "love you" point?

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I say it has to last at least a year. But who am I kidding, I'm just trying to shave some notches off my bedpost.

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:laugh: that was funny.

 

I guess I tend to think of long in terms of how emotionally invested I was. But I think I'd be doing some revisionist history, then, too. Cuz at least one guy I thought I was totally into back in the day doesn't seem particularly significant now. :p Also, he didn't make it to the one-year mark. So he's out.

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:laugh: that was funny.

 

I guess I tend to think of long in terms of how emotionally invested I was. But I think I'd be doing some revisionist history, then, too. Cuz at least one guy I thought I was totally into back in the day doesn't seem particularly significant now. :p Also, he didn't make it to the one-year mark. So he's out.

 

Hahaaaaa! I've sought validation and SM gave it to me. Now I can officially say I've only had 4 serious relationships in my life. MUUUuuahahahaaaa.

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I say 1 year, 2+ years, 5 years, and at 5 years something better happen; ie. engagement or marriage. That is when I was in undergrad and now graduate is done. I would not know now about it now... ;)

 

3 months maybe? :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

 

Instead of notches, have HER make the scratches... :lmao: :lmao:

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one year sounds about right.

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