unsafe Posted April 11, 2006 Posted April 11, 2006 Ok so I have been single for 8 months. Thats the longest I've gone sine I was a kid. Its not a bad thing, but it seems like I keep meeting guys and they take me out once, either they never ask me out again, or they ask me to go to bars for drinks with all the friends. Which when I don't know someone is kind of weird to me. But how well can you get to know someone when you get all messed up and then what end up sleeping together? So I also say no when guys who I've only been out on one date asking me to meet up for a drink. I've been told I should losen up and just meet them for a drink. Should I? I think if a guy likes me he will ask me on a real date again. Thats what I have encountered in the past. So I wouldnt' settle for less. But So far no guy is staying around because I don't go out to the bars with them? Are they just in it for one thing and I'm doing the right thing by saying no thanks. I have been talking to a new guy for a couple of weeks. He asked me out for lunch. He works bad hours and ended up not waking up in time. Its been almost and week and hasn't asked me out again since. So he flaked and then hasn't asked me out again. Although he calls me everyday. I don't get it?
ImWithHer Posted April 11, 2006 Posted April 11, 2006 Just relax. Try to find out what's GOOD about being single, and just enjoy that. Being comfortable with YOU is an important part of being happy. Don't lower your standards. If you don't want to go on a drinking date, then don't. Your reasons for that are perfectly acceptable. Not all guys are into the bar scene. Just be patient, be friendly, and do something just for YOU. Love will bite you in the ass when you least expect it.
Author unsafe Posted April 11, 2006 Author Posted April 11, 2006 thank you. I am happy being single. I just wasn't sure why when I find a guy i'm interested in. It never goes anywhere. Thanks for the advice!
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