consumed Posted April 11, 2006 Posted April 11, 2006 Last November my Ex sent me packing after I had moved out to her small town from my city which was in another province. Anyways, we had lived together for 8 months. You would think or I would think that I would be over things but lately I'm finding thoughts of her entering my mind on a daily basis. Thoughts abought places we went, things we did together and just being together with her. I'm still having dreams about her almost nightly which only adds to the thoughts about her during the day. I still miss her. Many times I'll find myself wishing we were together again, especially when I see couples together or I'm alone at night. Beacuse we lived for the 8 months in the city I'm in now I'm constantly running into places we went to and that only brings up memories that are hard to think about. I don't know what to do most days, it's so hard to push the thoughts out of mind. Work keeps me busy and alot of days I find things to keep my mind occupied but it's hard to keep alll those thoughts of her out of my mind. She is still living in her small town and I havn't had contact with her in a few months.
CaliGuy Posted April 11, 2006 Posted April 11, 2006 Read my guide to second chances. It will give you some guidelines on how to get over someone.
Brittanyjean06 Posted April 11, 2006 Posted April 11, 2006 5 months and still not over her? Well 8 months for me, and not even close to being over my ex( first love ). It's normal for you to still be hurting, I look at healing process's as after a while you just burry the pain inside, you never really heal until a long long time, or until some one new comes along and you instantly have feelings for them. I guess I really am not good for advice, I haven't made it to the other side yet.
Author consumed Posted April 11, 2006 Author Posted April 11, 2006 I know what you mean. I've often thougt about that, if we only just burry the pain inside of ourselves only to either be bruoght up later by future events or to stay locked away when we find someone new and develope new feelings.
Brittanyjean06 Posted April 13, 2006 Posted April 13, 2006 Yeah because after a while, you don't feel the pain as much, but you know that at any time you can easily bring back the memories and feel the same way you felt a long time ago when things ended, I think the pain goes away after ALOT of time, not a cuple of months and maybe not even just a year, maybe a cuple of years, than by than you could be falling in love with someone else, It will be worth it , just gotta stay strong during those tough months of hurting. but... We all go through it, we all have to deal
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