my heart is broken, empty and in pain

[Guest]

im feeling so heart broken and i thin i need some profesional help, my heart is in pain i eel like i cant face tomorrow every one at work looks at me and kep on asking if im ok and wants to know whats wrong with me and i just try letting them feel every thing is ok but there not fool at all, some one please help me i dont know what to do!!

 

let me tell you a little about my problem i met this guy one day at work he is a supplier of goods there, and one day he ask me if ide like to have a reltionship with him i told him id think about it after a few weeks i told him ok and we gave the relationship a try, after talking about our present life, he had told me that he have a girlfriend but he wants to end the relationship with here so i ask him what was the problem his reply was that she was too misreble and his kids and her couldn't get along and that he is uncomfortable with her so i tried comforting him and proceeded with the relationship after a few moths i realized that his attitude towards me started to change i kept asking my self were im going wrong i ask him if every thing is ok and he said yes, hes not the kind of person that talks much about his feeling .

 

a few mor months has gon past and trust me thaing were realy getting bad he had stop calling, we hardly spend time together he wasnt there non at all. so i started asking him again pressuring him to tell me whats wrong, i even reminded him his very words that he told me when he wanted the relationship with me and his reply to me after i spoke to him was every one deserves a second chance in life so i ask my self why didnt he tell me this all along he allowed me to fall in love with him and then he just broke my heart just like that.

 

I then gathered the courage to tell him that i couldnt go on with the relationship so i ended it with him and that was one of the biggest things i have ever done in a long time yet still im heart broken ,empty and in pain and im feeling so stress out. I hope that some one will definatly help me by giveing me some good advice please

[MadDog]

let me tell you a little about my problem i met this guy one day at work he is a supplier of goods there, and one day he ask me if ide like to have a reltionship with him i told him id think about it after a few weeks i told him ok and we gave the relationship a try, after talking about our present life, he had told me that he have a girlfriend but he wants to end the relationship with here so i ask him what was the problem his reply was that she was too misreble and his kids and her couldn't get along and

 

My advice is, the next time some guy you don't know anything about comes up to you and asks you if you want to be in a relationship with him, say no. Instead, try dating the guy for a while so you can get some information about him like does he have a girlfriend, kids, a criminal record, etc.

 

At least he didn't randomly come up to you and ask you if you wanted to marry him. It would have been a bummer to find out he's got kids & a girlfriend on the night of your honeymoon.

[riobikini]

He used you as a 'stepping stone'...and a place to be, someone to be with...until he could 'untie' totally from his previous girlfriend.

 

I believe you did the right thing in letting him go.

 

I gather from your posts that you were much more involved emotionally than, perhaps, you even realized, yourself.

 

But things will improve...it's just a matter of time, and talking, and waking up each day, and just muddling through the misery.

 

As I've said before, here in the boards, -*hearts were designed to mend* and yours will, in time.

 

Keep posting and use the search feature in this forum to look up more posts/threads in this site regarding your breakup by typing in different words on the subject/topic.

 

You'll be surprised to find the supportive info that generates from past posters, as well as those who post in current response.

 

P.S. You're gonna be ok!

 

Take care.

 

Hugs.

 

-Rio

[Brittanyjean06]

It's those first few stages of getting through your heartbreak, that become a bundle of problems. It's like you feel all this emotional pain, and there is absoultely nothing you can do about it, but yes you will get through these stages, it just takes some time, Go get some food, watch some movies