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[xotiicbronze]

Okay... so i fly 6000 miles to see my boyfriend of 6 months, whom i met in australia (which is where i am originally from) and the moment i get to L.A he begins his accusations that i am cheating on him. It made me wonder what he was going on about because I had the impression our relationship was sweet as sugar. So one day we are talking and he confesses that he cheated on me with 2 females, everything turned from rainbows into fire on hot coals. I absorbed his infidelity, then exhaled relieving my thoughts and ignored it. I'm 19, and he's 25, he was married to a 35 year old woman who had 4 kids that weren't his. Fair enough i'm younger and that I am not ready to settle down and starting growing grey hairs on my head, but I know how to be faithful and cater to my man's needs. My problem is that he continues you to say stupid immature things as if though I have been cheating on him and that he knows, when in reality his in denial and trying to catch me out so he can be able to say that we both done dirt.

It's starting to frustrate me and its drifting me away from him, and when the topic arises i dont know what to say anymore. How can i get it through his head that i'm not trying to mess with anyone else?

[WiseWo]

You are way too good and way to mature for this a hole! Seriously, accusing you of cheating, when he was! Oldest trick in the book. He figures if he hounds you enough you will admit to cheating. Then, the score will be even and he can move on. Thing is, the score will never be even, because it is probably not like you to cheat. Why men mess up the best thing they got will always stump me.

 

If my bf told me this, I would have got right back on that plane and went home to find me a real mate!

[mopar crazy]

Yep, can see we are in the same boat here. It sucks! Did you read the replies to my thread yet? Maybe it's the same situation...your BF feeing guilty and having some self-esteem issue's, ect.

 

 

Hope he wises up soon b4 he looses you.