johan Posted April 9, 2006 Posted April 9, 2006 In over three years I dreamt about my ex maybe three or four times. We've been broken up for six months now. We made a very lame attempt to reconcile around the first of the year. Both times we parted, I came away feeling elated and justified and confident. And each time that passed after a few weeks and I lost my conviction that I had done things right and that I was better off without her. Now once or twice a week I have very vivid dreams of us talking. In the dreams I'm always pursuing her, and I'm always feeling heartbroken to find that her love for me has completely dried up. Then I wake up and have to recover myself. A craniectomy seems like a great option right now. Anyone tried it?
riobikini Posted April 9, 2006 Posted April 9, 2006 Hold off on the craniectomy...the lobotomy (concerning her) is coming! (Smile) -Rio
tinktronik Posted April 9, 2006 Posted April 9, 2006 arggg, for a moment I thought this was another thread like the ...Im gonna cut my hand off....Thank goodness....It'll get better with time.
tearful_soul22 Posted April 9, 2006 Posted April 9, 2006 Why is it the EX's always try to come back and haunt you? They always do that in real life or in dreams..sometimes it's hard to decipher which one is which anymore, so yeah, if you do get a craniotomy, lobotomy, partial dissection of the aorta, or anything like that, let me know..i need your surgeon's number!
riobikini Posted April 9, 2006 Posted April 9, 2006 It's ok, Tink...keep the hands...they come in -er- rather handy when a partner's gone AWOL. (Smile) -Rio
heartnsoul Posted April 9, 2006 Posted April 9, 2006 If you've ever seen "Eternal Sunshine on the Spotless Mind" it's right up our alley. If only it were real! I wish I could offer you some magic words of wisdom to shed light on your situation Sometimes, we have to hit rock bottom before we realize that the lives we're leading (being depressed) aren't going to change themselves. Being proactive is so important ... even when the thought of getting your ars outta bed seems like a task. We eventually have to push on and change things up ... break the monotony of day to day living. "Idle time is the devils playground" Next time you get an invite to something you know will suck ... force yourself to go! It's all about diverting your attention and energy into something other than the ex. I recently took a trip out West and it's a trip I usually really look forward to every year but this year was different. I felt like I had to go kicking and screaming but man ... I'm so glad I went! I had to really force myself because the alternative of sitting home obsessing about my ex had to change....even if it was only for a week lol I'm just rambling at this point lol but....I admit that I follow some of your threads because I think we're on the same emotional ride. In the meantime Johan .... as Joe Dirt would say 'Keep on keepin on' and 'Life's a garden, dig it'
In Sync Posted April 9, 2006 Posted April 9, 2006 I recently took a trip out West and it's a trip I usually really look forward to every year but this year was different. I felt like I had to go kicking and screaming but man ... I'm so glad I went! I had to really force myself because the alternative of sitting home obsessing about my ex had to change....even if it was only for a week lol Congats on your trip..that's no small feat to overcoming the habit of obsessing and to do something just for you. One week eventually adds up to two weeks and so forth and so forth...
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