BubbleTeaGirl Posted April 9, 2006 Posted April 9, 2006 Can a couple have a good relationship when both the guy and the girl have insecurity, trust issues? Is it possble to work it out together?
blind_otter Posted April 9, 2006 Posted April 9, 2006 If both people work it out for themselves. I mean, you can't really have a cooperative effort on something that is your issue. You deal with yours, he deals with his, and hopefully you end up on the same page.
Author BubbleTeaGirl Posted April 9, 2006 Author Posted April 9, 2006 So does that mean the couple shouldn't go into a relationship before they solve their own individual problems?
Curmudgeon Posted April 9, 2006 Posted April 9, 2006 I think it's possible. I was horribly burned by divorce after 25 years and my current wife had major abandonment and trust issues due to her past experiences. It took about four years after we married to work out all the baggage but now, almost 10 years later, we're doing fine. I think it all depends on the love and commitment that are there.
SuperMonk Posted April 10, 2006 Posted April 10, 2006 Can a couple have a good relationship when both the guy and the girl have insecurity, trust issues? Is it possble to work it out together? Almost everyone one has insecurity issues, and some have trust issues. The key is open/clear communication. It's almost essential to any kind of relationship.
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