Art_Critic Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 The sex gets boring quickly if it's done everyday or even every week. Maybe for you.. but for her.. she will be doing other guys on the side because you can't satisfy her... For Real..... Sex only every six weeks will destroy a budding relationship not grow one.. By the way.. may I ask your age ??
blind_otter Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 The sex gets boring quickly if it's done everyday or even every week. Wait. What? Since when is sex boring? Are you a missionary man!
whichwayisup Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 No sex for me until easter and no more sex after that until memorial day and no more after that until the 4th of july and then no more until labor day, & no more until halloween. So I'd say I have sex about every 6 weeks or so. Depending on the intervals between the holidays. Balanced guys remain a good catch & a challenge. The sex gets boring quickly if it's done everyday or even every week. Speak for yourself, NOT for all mankind, k. Personally I think YOU are missing out by doing this to yourself and to (IF you have one) your girlfriend.
roxy_1980 Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 I personally think you should rename the categories: wimp, game player and a**h***. The first guy is frightened, not a nice guy. The second guy relies on trickery and withholding sex (which by the way, doesn't work for guys, it's a chick thing). And the last guy is an absolute ass , but hey at least you got that one right. None of the personalities you paint are remotely close to a "balanced guy".
RecordProducer Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 There are only 3 types of guys in this world. Nice guys, balanced guys, & jerks. Some differences between the three are: A. Nice guys call their girlfriends everyday sometimes 2 or more times per day. Nice guys sit by the phone all day long waiting for her to call and they'll pick up on the first ring. If they miss a call they are too quick to reply. Balanced guys call their girlfriends no more than once or twice a week unless it's for a specific reason such as to confirm dating plans and those kind of calls are short and sweet. Balanced guys also wait 1-2 days before returning a phone call or replying to an e-mail. They do not always answer their girlfriend's calls & when they do answer they wait 4-5 rings before pikcing up the phone. Balanced guys almost always end the conversation first over the phone & hang up first. (If your girlfriend has recently been in a crisis situation, i.e., in the hospital, grieveing a death in the family,sick,etc... then balanced guys call everyday maybe even twice a day to check in & make sure everything's alright.) Jerk guys will almost never call their girlfriends. They will ignore most of her calls or e-mails too. They will not call very often to check up on her when she's going through a crisis. B. Nice guys are quick to apologize even when they have not done anything wrong Balanced guys apologize when they know they are wrong. They will admit their mistakes. Jerk guys rarely apologize when they are wrong. They never admit their wrongs. They always have to have the last word in an argument. C. Nice guys are afraid to have sex with their girlfriends. Balanced guys save sex with their girlfriends only for special occassions. Jerks just demand sex. D. Nice guys are forgiving but they do not draw boundaries. Balanced guys are forgiving but they also draw boundaries. Jerk guys are unforgiving. E. Nice guys give 2 or more chances when they have been wronged. Balanced guys give 1 chance only. Jerk guys give 0 chances. F. Nice guys will take years before they are bold enough to take the next step to exclusivity in a relationship. They may be friends with a girl for a long time and never make a move beyond that. Balanced guys establish friendship first for at least 1-2 months before dating exclusively as boyfriend/girlfriend. Jerk guys won't even try to establish a friendship first. G. Nice guys say "I love you" too many times per day. Balanced guys say "I love you" about once or twice a day. Jerk guys might say "I love you" but they are not sincere. H. Balanced guys open doors for women but may forget to do so once or twice a year. Jerk guys rarely open doors for women. I. Nice guys are not concerned with their physical appearance or personal hygeine. Balanced guys take good care of their apperance & hygeine. They shower 2-3 times per day. Brush & floss 2 times a day. Trim their fingernails & toenails about once a week. They are clean cut. Jerk guys are obsessed with trying to look like arnold schawzeneager. They may spend 8 hours a day 7 days a week at the gym. They can't go more than 30 minutes without looking at themselves in the mirror. J. Nice guys show up at their girlfriend's house everyday. Balanced guys show up about once a week & no more than that. If there is a crisis situation then these rules are bended. A balanced guy will be there for his girlfriend as much as he can when she has a legitimate need for him. Jerk guys are too obsessed with themselves to make time for their girlfriends. They may be workaholics=married to their work and make no time to see their girlfriends. K. Nice guys are doormats & allow their girlfriends to use their sexual power to get what they want from him. Balanced guys are not afraid to stand up & say "no" in a civil tone and risk losing their sexual privileges that evening. Jerk guys will use profanity and tell their girlfriends to shut up. What is my point? Well the bottom line is this: Nice guys finish last. Jerk guys finish 2nd to last. Balanced guys finish first. How do you know which category you are in? Whichever category you have the most characteristics in. You might be a nice guy in one department while being a jerk in another department while being a balanced guy in another department. I'm a nice guy when it comes to being a doormat in order to keep my sexual privileges. I'm a jerk when it comes to forgiving my girlfriend for wrongs she's done (although I don't tell her that). I'm balanced when it comes to how often I initiate contact with her. I'm balanced when it comes to establishing a friendship with a woman first before taking it to exclusivity. I am a jerk when it comes to giving chances. This is the biggest pile of BS I've ever read on LS.
Author starlight2025 Posted April 8, 2006 Author Posted April 8, 2006 Maybe for you.. but for her.. she will be doing other guys on the side because you can't satisfy her... For Real..... Sex only every six weeks will destroy a budding relationship not grow one.. By the way.. may I ask your age ?? I'm in my mid 20s. If she goes out and sleeps with other guys then that just tells me that sex is more important to her than the man she claims to love. That will prove she's only been using me all along for sex & doesn't care about me at all. Nothing wrong with just wanting a f*ck buddy as long as she is honest about it from the very beginning. It's when people are honest about their intentions that someone gets hurt. She should find a friend with benefits if this is all she wants.
Author starlight2025 Posted April 8, 2006 Author Posted April 8, 2006 Wait. What? Since when is sex boring? Are you a missionary man! No I'm not a missionary. I'm just a human being who likes a challenge. If I have sex everyday or even every week then it gets old and dry after awhile and I'm sure it would have the same effect on her if I make myself easy for her. I don't want what comes easy.
Author starlight2025 Posted April 8, 2006 Author Posted April 8, 2006 Speak for yourself, NOT for all mankind, k. Personally I think YOU are missing out by doing this to yourself and to (IF you have one) your girlfriend. If I was a teeanger I'd probably still like to have sex everyday. But at my age I've past my sexual peak. I'm starting to wane. I'd like to know that sex I'm receiveing is some kind of special reward for my accomplishments like a job promotion, completeing a course, passing an exam, as well as because it's a holiday or birthdays,etc.
westernxer Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 I don't want what comes easy. A little Viagra and you'll want it every way but Tuesday.
Author starlight2025 Posted April 8, 2006 Author Posted April 8, 2006 A little Viagra and you'll want it every way but Tuesday. Why not Tuesday?
Author starlight2025 Posted April 8, 2006 Author Posted April 8, 2006 I want to point out that the balanced guy also does not need sex in order to be happy. While he thinks its nice to have a woman satisfy his sexual desires he doesn't need one. He learns how to satisfy himself. A balanced guy wants a woman but does not need one. He is self sufficient & happy being single. I also believe this applies to balanced women.
Craig Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 ..you forgot satanists.. (just checked your history) And CLOWNS
Craig Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 I'd like to know that sex I'm receiving is some kind of special reward for my accomplishments like a job promotion, completing a course, passing an exam, as well as because it's a holiday or birthdays,etc. Sort of like "mercy sex" with more excuses for it? What's love got to do with it anyway huh?
BlahBlahQueen Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 Have you seen a psychiatrist lately? There's something not quite right with you.
BlahBlahQueen Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 No I'm not a missionary. I'm just a human being who likes a challenge. Starlight, missionary is a sexual position. You just gave yourself away as a virgin and a liar.
Author starlight2025 Posted April 8, 2006 Author Posted April 8, 2006 I'm not a virgin and even if I was I don't see any shame in it. Once again I have no interest in being with a woman who's only after sex. The very minute she proves that's all she's looking for in a relationship I'm dumping her. If sex is that important to her then she needs a friend with benefits and not a serious long term relationship.
MadDog Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 I'm in my mid 20s. . .If I was a teeanger I'd probably still like to have sex everyday. But at my age I've past my sexual peak. I'm starting to wane. Haha! I've figured you out. You have problems getting it up, don't you? There's no way you are waning sexually if you're in your mid 20's. Because you have problems performing, you made up all this bulls*** about being a balanced guy, etc. so you wouldn't have to feel bad about it. You should just see a doctor man. It'll be much better for you.
Author starlight2025 Posted April 8, 2006 Author Posted April 8, 2006 Haha! I've figured you out. You have problems getting it up, don't you? There's no way you are waning sexually if you're in your mid 20's. Because you have problems performing, you made up all this bulls*** about being a balanced guy, etc. so you wouldn't have to feel bad about it. You should just see a doctor man. It'll be much better for you. The only time I wane is if I'm getting sex too often. It has to be sporadic for me in order for it to be exciting. Yes the balanced guy doesn't need sex in order to be happy. If you are depending on sex for your happiness then you are in bondage. The balanced guy is free through his self sufficiency & satisfaction!
Author starlight2025 Posted April 8, 2006 Author Posted April 8, 2006 Have you seen a psychiatrist lately? There's something not quite right with you. psychiatrists have their opinion like everyone else. The best diagnoser is oneself in my opinion. The solution to one's problems is inside oneself. No mental doctor can diagnose you because they would have to know every detail about what's going on inside of you.
MadDog Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 psychiatrists have their opinion like everyone else. The best diagnoser is oneself in my opinion. The solution to one's problems is inside oneself. No mental doctor can diagnose you because they would have to know every detail about what's going on inside of you. How about for physical ailments? Are you the best at assessing conditions like heart failure, diabetes, etc. in yourself as well? You are both hilarious & annoying at the same time. Hilarious because you're so ignorant, annoying because you might reproduce one day.
Author starlight2025 Posted April 8, 2006 Author Posted April 8, 2006 How about for physical ailments? Are you the best at assessing conditions like heart failure, diabetes, etc. in yourself as well? You are both hilarious & annoying at the same time. Hilarious because you're so ignorant, annoying because you might reproduce one day. I'm talking about emotional issues. I don't believe a doctor can asess emotional or spiritual issues. As far as physical ailments i'm fine. I don't have heart disease or any signs of diabetes. I'm too young to get heart disease anyway. I have been depressed the last few days but that's about it.
TeaCooler Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 A nice guy who answers on the first ring will give the impression to his girlfriend that he's waiting at her every beck & call and doesn't have a life of his own. There's no mystery in that. No challenge. She may think he's obsessed. No woman respects a man who kisses her butt! um, or she'll think the phone was right next him...or she'll remember that the number of rings you hear isn't always the same for both people...or maybe she'll think nothing of it at all... it amazes me, the stupidity that some people think all females possess.
luvtoto Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 And CLOWNS Don't be dissing on clowns, ma'an. Ya, think being a clown is easy?
Author starlight2025 Posted April 8, 2006 Author Posted April 8, 2006 To me a relationship is like a career. Well it is a business. It's buying and selling from each other. Relationships are not suppose to be fun and games. I'll be an expert in the psychological warfare that goes on in the dating department when I'm finished with this relationship!
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