prfrogkisser Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 Good Morning to all and i hope everyone is having a great Friday:cool: Ive been noticing that i have the tendency to date someone for a while and then my attitude changes and im not interested anymore or i feel there is something missing.. Do i have commitment issues? Am I too picky? Do men bore me easily? I watched the movie Prime last night and wham!! i got sad and started thinking about the person Ive been dating.I was so upset.I dont even know if i was PMSING lol. Why am I not totally happy with dating this person. Am i making up excuses? He doesnt express his feelings towards me and he is not romantic. He is a good man with a great job.He wants to take things slow.My friends say I shouldnt settle for less but most of them have someone. Why do i have a hard time dating? I know I am afraid of getting hurt but i do take chances. Damn Derek Jeter if i was with him i wouldnt have this problem:lmao:
2020vision Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 I am going through the same thing right now. I do not seem to "click" with ANYONE I go out on dates with. There is always something missing, its sooo frustrating. But, I look at it as a good quality that I am so picky. I wouldn't want someone who is not romantic or doesn't express his feelings...You are having a hard time dating because you have standards! Thats a good thing! Don't EVER settle for anything less than what you want. Damn Derek Jeter if i was with him i wouldnt have this problem:lmao: LMAO...
Author prfrogkisser Posted April 7, 2006 Author Posted April 7, 2006 You are having a hard time dating because you have standards! Thats a good thing! Don't EVER settle for anything less than what you want. Thank you so much Im glad I am somewhat normal:)
2020vision Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 Thank you so much Im glad I am somewhat normal:) You are welcome. I don't know if you watch Sex and the City, but there is this episode where Miranda refuses to go out on anymore dates because they all turn out bad..It is sooo funny.
2sunny Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 You are welcome. I don't know if you watch Sex and the City, but there is this episode where Miranda refuses to go out on anymore dates because they all turn out bad..It is sooo funny. This is precisely why I told this guy last night that if he wanted to continue to see me, it had to be for sex only... I don't want him demanding anything from me. I don't want to expect anything from him. I do, however need the sex part. We'll see how it pans out in the long run, I wonder if it can actually stay this way for both sides...
2020vision Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 This is precisely why I told this guy last night that if he wanted to continue to see me, it had to be for sex only... I don't want him demanding anything from me. I don't want to expect anything from him. I do, however need the sex part. We'll see how it pans out in the long run, I wonder if it can actually stay this way for both sides... Hey, at least he is good for something!! I usually can't even find a guy that I actually want to have sex with, so thats awesome!
MadDog Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 This is precisely why I told this guy last night that if he wanted to continue to see me, it had to be for sex only... Did he start to cry when you told him this?
Vertex Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 Sorry but I hate Sex and the City. It totally screws men over in relationships where women watch that show. My girlfriend started adopting all these ideas and quotes into the relationship and it was quite frustrating. I'm sorry for not being a hotshot New York ibanker or lawyer, man, we're in college for god's sake! But yea the show pretty much depicts many men in weird lights and renders them disposable. It also seems to promote random flings... which is not cool when you're in a relationship. I don't know, it's a show and yet so many people I know use it as a bible...
2sunny Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 Did he start to cry when you told him this? I had to twist his leg, I mean arm, to get him to agree.... It's too bad I'm not in the mood to committ to anyone because he is handsome and very sexy. Oh well, just sex seems better for now.... it was damn good too.
Author prfrogkisser Posted April 7, 2006 Author Posted April 7, 2006 This is precisely why I told this guy last night that if he wanted to continue to see me, it had to be for sex only... I don't want him demanding anything from me. I don't want to expect anything from him. I do, however need the sex part. We'll see how it pans out in the long run, I wonder if it can actually stay this way for both sides... I wish you good luck girl because i really think most "F" buddies in the long run dont last. Someone might get emotionally attached. I still give u a hight "5". Women can have the same needs as men and sometimes we just want to have sex and go on with our lives.
MadDog Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 I had to twist his leg, I mean arm, to get him to agree.... It's too bad I'm not in the mood to committ to anyone because he is handsome and very sexy. Oh well, just sex seems better for now.... it was damn good too. He must feel worthless & terrible to be used as a sex object like that. Whatever you do, don't suggest a threesome with a hot girl. A man can only take so much humiliation.
2sunny Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 I wish you good luck girl because i really think most "F" buddies in the long run dont last. Someone might get emotionally attached. I still give u a hight "5". Women can have the same needs as men and sometimes we just want to have sex and go on with our lives. If it gets to the point where it is no longer fun, then it's over.... for now it's very fun...
2sunny Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 He must feel worthless & terrible to be used as a sex object like that. Whatever you do, don't suggest a threesome with a hot girl. A man can only take so much humiliation. :lmao: It actually feels good to use a man for sex again... :lmao: It's been 23 years since I did things this way, I am remembering how much fun sex is for just the fun of it all.... it feels good, so I will do it...
2020vision Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 Sorry but I hate Sex and the City. It totally screws men over in relationships where women watch that show. My girlfriend started adopting all these ideas and quotes into the relationship and it was quite frustrating. I'm sorry for not being a hotshot New York ibanker or lawyer, man, we're in college for god's sake! But yea the show pretty much depicts many men in weird lights and renders them disposable. It also seems to promote random flings... which is not cool when you're in a relationship. I don't know, it's a show and yet so many people I know use it as a bible... I absolutley love the show and is a crack up to watch, being a single girl going through the motions of dating...However, I do not take it to heart nor do I use it as a bible. However, I know quite a few women who do use it such as this. It is ficitional, so I don't take it any further than that.
CaliGuy Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 I feel sorry for anyone who takes "Sex in the City" serious. Hollywood has no idea how relationships truly work. 2020, glad to see you understand that.
SmoochieFace Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 While viewing television shows such as "Sex And The City" it's a good idea to remind yourself of the fact that it IS only a TV show AND it isn't representative of how things are in real life. Also worth noting is that the show takes place in NYC and the culture and lifestyle of NYC certainly doesn't permeate all of society. Basically... don't take any dating or relationship cues from television because, for the most part, the shows are unrealistic. They are produced simply to entertain and nothing more.
2020vision Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 While viewing television shows such as "Sex And The City" it's a good idea to remind yourself of the fact that it IS only a TV show AND it isn't representative of how things are in real life. Also worth noting is that the show takes place in NYC and the culture and lifestyle of NYC certainly doesn't permeate all of society. Basically... don't take any dating or relationship cues from television because, for the most part, the shows are unrealistic. They are produced simply to entertain and nothing more. Exactly, it is all just entertainment!
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