Beatnik Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 OK so a few months ago one of my sister's best friends resurfaced after like 5 years out of the blue. So we begin talking and she admits to me that she used to have a big crush on me (i liked her too) and she starts hinting about how her current relationship is failing. So I invite her to hang out with me and my family on my birthday, and its like she never left, I make all the right moves, we kiss and we have sex. She keeps telling me how strange it was that she felt so close to me already, she even told me that during the whole year she had been dating this previous guy she was never comfortable enough to take her close off with him or anyone previously, and we get really close over the next few days and start dating, then a few days later we go on a date and we have sex again that night. She really enjoys it, in fact (and I dont know what to think of this) afterwards she gets a little teary eyed, she says it was because she was so happy and she didnt know why and how strong her feelings are for me already. I'm stoked about the whole thing because I havent experience anything like this before. So she tells me she has to go on some kinda retreat thing up in the mountains for a few days, she calls when she gets there, tells me she misses me and says she'll talk to me later...that was 7 days ago. I havent received a phone call from her, her cell phone has been convinscated by her mom, she hasnt signed into myspace for a few days, no messages. I dont know what the hell is going on, at first I figured she was just busy with the retreat, but she was supposed to be back on Sunday which was 5 days ago, so I dunno, I miss her and worry despite how quick all this is
Author Beatnik Posted April 7, 2006 Author Posted April 7, 2006 seeing as this left the front page and no one has replied bump
westernxer Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 Mountain retreat = mountain trip with a male treat. That's why she hasn't called you.
Craig Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 Big Red Flags are waving here Beatnik, seriously ugly, big red flags. Her involvement with you is just too darned fast. She has put you on a pedestal in a heart beat and will smite you down off of it just as quickly. You're in for a world of hurt if you continue seeing this girl, try to learn more about her previous relationships and why they failed. I bet she's a drama queen and none of the breakups were her fault, etc.
blue636 Posted April 8, 2006 Posted April 8, 2006 I'm afraid that Craig is right... there are big, ugly red flags waving. We could be wrong, there's always that chance, but the likelihood is maybe you've been used... Good luck.
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