blue16 Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 I have recently joined an online networking site similar to [email protected]. Originally I just used it to keep in contact with friends and such. But I was browsing through some singles profiles, and found this really hot girl that caught my eye who happened to be of East Indian descent. So I thought "what the hell, I'll msg her and see what happens." So I sent her a friendly message complimenting her eyes - not really expecting anything out of it. I wanted to give her a friendly compliment besides the comments other guys leave "You're (insert vague admiration here - hot, fine, beautiful etc). To my surprise she replied, and also said I had nice eyes. The last week or so we have been msging each other about once a day on the site. She enjoys cooking, so when I teased her about being a world renowned chef when she's done schooling, she made a vague reference about how maybe she could 'teach me a few techniques in the future'. I learned that she is very busy on weekends, but she told me she just quit her job so I assume she is free this weekend for a change. I really have the urge to ask her out. But, in addition to being afraid of rejection, I don't want to creep her out or anything. This is not exclusively a dating site - she could be on it just for chatting with people. It's meant for friends, msging, networking, and can also be used for dating. Plus I have only been msging her for like a week. It might be kinda soon to ask her out, but at the same time I don't wanna get in the 'friends zone' by not making a move fast enough. Plus dating never works out for me. I just have a feeling she'll say no. Even tho she liked my pic (as far as I know) if I ask her out, she probably won't accept. I know that's not a very positive outlook, but it's true. Every girl I ask, it never works out. Even the ones that like me (their friends tell me they do) there is some reason why it never goes anywhere - either they live in another city, or they already have a bf etc etc. And of course the other half which doesn't like me I get excuses to where it's obvious they aren't interested. So in addition to this being girl probably being too good looking, it is in an online environment which I am very unfamiliar at. Help!!
MadDog Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 Just ask her out. You're not even friends with her so you've got very little to lose. If she says no, so what?
2sunny Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 if you don't ask, you'll never know. ASK... you will regret it if you don't... I hate regrets....
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