2sunny Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 This guy I have been spending time with for the past few weeks is never on time. This is a guy that is 47 years old... He is not just a few minutes late, he is an hour or two late. Yesterday morning I told him I thought it was totally disrespectful and he said he was sorry. Then - for a dinner outing last night - when he was two hours late and I couldn't get ahold of him. When I finally did hear from him I told him not to come over to pick me up. Now he says that I am full of drama! WTF??? I am pissed! Thinking also of not dealing with him at all anymore... Am I missing something? It doesn't make sense to me, as I would not disrespect someone this way... I need some input from you all... dump him or deal with it?
littlekitty Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 It's utterly disrespectful... especially after you told him. Dump his ass... dump his ass!!!
Sassy Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 It's utterly disrespectful... especially after you told him. Dump his ass... dump his ass!!! Couldn't have said it better Littlekitty!! He doesn't care about your feelings about being on time even after you said something. Being on time is a major issue with my SO . I guess it is all in what you want to do. He will be on time for his s*** but he will lolly gag till close to time unless i tell him a earlier time. LOL:lmao:
serial muse Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 Yeah, speaking as someone who has issues with time - an hour or two late is pretty bad. Being 10-15 minutes late is just having problems with being on time. Being an hour or two late is having problems with wanting to show up at all. I admit I did that in one relationship - several times in a row, I was considerably late going over to the guy's house to hang out. Like one to two hours late. I did that only a few times though before I finally broke up with him: I realized that I was postponing going over there because I just wasn't all that into it and didn't feel like dealing with it. And eventually I got out. Break it off. You'll be glad you did. He's being a weenie about doing it himself, and that "you're full of drama" crap is just a red herring.
catgirl1927 Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 He's only saying that you are being dramatic to excuse himself. What a jerk. That's enough of that. No more from him, just cut him off.
Author 2sunny Posted April 6, 2006 Author Posted April 6, 2006 Just sent him a text saying that our priorities are different right now (they are not) and that he seems too busy for all of this (he's not), but don't be mad that it will not work out..... It's all good - was my perspective to him....
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