Guest Posted April 5, 2006 Posted April 5, 2006 Hello everyone. I'm 20 years old and just recently got some shocking news from my b/f of 3 years. He came to me over this past weekend and confessed that he ALMOST had sex with another girl. I asked him by what he meant by ALMOST? He said he liked this other girl from his work, and they had been talking some while on the job. He went over her house and they started kissing and one thing led to another, the next thing you know they were naked, and he said he tried to put it in to have sex with her but couldn't. He said not because it wouldn't work, but because he felt bad and told her he couldn't go through with it. She told him she understood. I didn't know what to think. So he called her own his cell while at my apartment and she told me the same thing he told me, that they didn't but almost did. I have no clue what to think or believe. Is it possible they are telling the truth? Or do you think they both came up with this story and just told me this to be telling me? I plan on breaking up with him though, because wheather he really went through with it or not, he was thinking about it, and that speaks volumes to me.
JadeStar Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 I think either thing they said is possible. They are either telling the truth or they came up with the same story to tell you. Either way, if you're planning on breaking things off with him, then its probably for the best, because even if they didn't, he was thinking about it and came as close as to actually getting ready to do it. Just my 2 cents. Jade
bab Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 I think they are probably telling the truth. If they wanted to come up with a story, they would've said they backed out a lot earlier then getting totally naked and ready to go. But if you are leaving, it doesn't really matter does it?
catgirl1927 Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 I don't think it matters at this point. If he was naked with her, then he cheated on you. Not "putting it in" doesn't mean he didn't cheat. I wouldn't have anything to do with him ever again, he is a liar and a cheater.
prfrogkisser Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 It sounds like you have made up your mind already. If he really loves you he wouldnt have done anything. He told you he liked this girl and if he wanted to date her he should have broken up with you. Both of you are young and you need to experience dating a little bit more. Im glad you will make the right choice and break it up. Even if he was honest with you the trust is lost:(
Tim'sAngel Posted April 7, 2006 Posted April 7, 2006 I think they are probably telling the truth. If they wanted to come up with a story, they would've said they backed out a lot earlier then getting totally naked and ready to go. But if you are leaving, it doesn't really matter does it? I agree with this
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