What is going on with her?

[lehen99]

OK here is the problem. Me and my ex girlfriend have been together about 4 years. She was 18 when we started dating and I was 22. Now I am 25 and she is 21. We have a 1 year old child toghether. This is the 3rd time she has dumped me so I have no clue what to do now. She says she doesn't love me anymore, but I'm not so sure that she really doesn't or not. When she left she said she didn't feel like we were in love anymore, and said that I didn't love her. Also now she is accusing me of not loving our daughter, which is crap because I love her more than anything. I take her every chance I get, and have loads of fun with her. My ex's mom has never really liked me, she has been married like 5 or 6 times, so I don't know if this has anything to do with my ex's behavior or not. So far I don't call her at all, unless she calls me first, and usually the only time she calls is when she has a question about when I am picking up our daughter. The second time we got back together, I came home from work on night and she was crying, and I asked what was wrong, and she told me she was sorry for all the crap that she did to me and what she put me through. Now it's like she doesn't care at all about me anymore. I love this girl more than anyone I've ever met in my life. Even my parents loved her like she was part of our family. I don't know if she just missed out on her partying days or what, but I know that I am really confused about what has happened, and what is going to happen. Most people that I have talked to, says she needs to grow up, and one day she will realize how good she had it with me, but I don't know. They say in a good relationship the other person compliments the others weakness's, which we were perfect together. Everything she had trouble with I was good at, and everything I had trouble with she was good at. And we never critized the other for having problems with things, we just helped each other with what they needed. I hope one day she comes back, because I love her to death and I just can't picture myself with anyone but her. Also I know our daughter would have the best life possible if we could be togher. I can't even imagine what life would be like without both my parents around all the time. Any help with this would be GREATLY appreciated, as I am going nuts with questions in my head. If anyone needs additional info let me know. Thanks for reading.