Guest Posted April 4, 2006 Posted April 4, 2006 I am wondering if I should tell my exboyfriend and my current boyfriend of 2 1/2 years' best friend that I find him very sexually attracted to him. I no longer feel a sexually attraction to my boyfriend but feel an extremely close emotional connection which is much more important to me than sex. However I do still have my needs and I really want to tell him. I am afraid if I can trust him or not to tell him I find him very inticing. I don't want to hurt my boyfriend or jeapordize our relationship but this thing with his bestfriend is eating me up because we see him frequently (mostly my doing) and It is all I can think about when I am not with my boyfriend. I don't know.
Bryanp Posted April 5, 2006 Posted April 5, 2006 In order words, you wish to tell your ex-boyfriend that you still find him sexually hot; and you would not mind cheating with him behind your current boyfriend's back. How would you feel if your boyfriend was doing to you what you are proposing to do to him. Why would your boyfriend wish to stay with you knowing you will or wish to have sex with your ex? Clearly you have very little respect for your current boyfriend. Why don't you let him go so he can find someone who can respect him and a relationship since it is apparent you do not wish to do so.
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