your girl's weight

[Walk]

I agree but the point I was getting at was I wondered if walk's man sets up a nice anniversary date for them or something, does she just roll out of bed & go. If she is true to her word & doesn't think looks should matter at all, that's exactly what she would do.

Too funny... if you only knew the truth...

 

I do roll out of bed and go out with my guy. and yes, he does think I'm hot, sexy and wildly exciting. 2yrs and he can't keep his hands off me. There are times I've dressed up for him. Or I've had to for certain events. I really dislike makeup, never wear it. Always feel like I've got a mask on, and I end up smearing it. I usually wear my hair in a pony tail. Or just brush and go. Takes me 5-10 minutes to get ready to "go out".

 

I like running because it helps center me emotionally. I don't like being too overweight because it's hard on my joints and makes me tired, so I keep it in control. I like outdoor sports, so having a decent level of fitness makes those more fun for me. I don't do it to impress others, or attract anyone, or to hope someone will like me because of how I look. Took me 10 years to get to this place.

 

Also. I found this incredibly ironic at the time. Couple years ago, (while single) I would go to the bar with a few of my female friends. When I tried to dress up and wear the makeup and look like them, seemed like no man would look at me. When I wore comfy jeans, a regular tshirt and a sports bra (no makeup, hair in a scrunchy) men constantly came up to me asking for my number, to dance, or buy me drinks. Hot men. My clothes weren't form fitting, or "slutty". Very conservative for the environment.

 

The difference? I'm confident in "regular" clothes. I'm not so confident and relaxed "dressed" up.

[MadDog]

Also. I found this incredibly ironic at the time. Couple years ago, (while single) I would go to the bar with a few of my female friends. When I tried to dress up and wear the makeup and look like them, seemed like no man would look at me. When I wore comfy jeans, a regular tshirt and a sports bra (no makeup, hair in a scrunchy) men constantly came up to me asking for my number, to dance, or buy me drinks. Hot men. My clothes weren't form fitting, or "slutty". Very conservative for the environment.

 

The difference? I'm confident in "regular" clothes. I'm not so confident and relaxed "dressed" up.

 

Or. . .the guys were looking for a quick score & figured you'd be a much easier target than some dime that's dressed to kill.

[Walk]

Can I ask you then, do you ever put in any effort to make yourself look more attractive by putting on makeup, fixing your hair, eating healthy, exercising, etc.?

I'm really tired of placing importance on how others view me. I am me. Intelligent, witty, mostly retarded, and cute. I wear clean clothes and shower so you don't have to hold your nose around me. But other than that, I'm done with wasting huge amounts of time obsessing on whether I look like *name your fad actress here*. I won't no matter how hard I try. I don't have an airbrush machine to carry around with me.

 

 

I think you don't understand that looks are a prerequisite for me but nowhere near the only thing that matters. I also want a girl with intelligence, a good sense of humor, independence, etc. What's wrong with wanting it all? You make it seem like I either have to choose looks or personality. Are you saying that if a girl is hot, she's automatically devoid of a good personality?

You can go after whatever it is you want. More power to you. Those hotties need someone too. And if you get the doors and engine you desire, then treat her with respect and dignity. But I do take offense that you would inadvertantly imply I have no doors. j/k.

 

If it were simply about the status, I wouldn't care about personality. And your analogy that you'd rather have a car that's cheap but functional implies that the hotter a girl is, the more difficult and draining she will be for me. I think you're stereotyping a lot here. A hot girl can be low maintenance. The correct analogy would be, if you could choose a Mercedes or Hyndai and they cost exactly the same, which would you choose? I'd choose the Mercedes. Who wouldn't?

Acutally, I was trying to make a bigger connection then merely car types. I've noticed that the men who seek the more attractive gf/wife, also have a tendency toward material status symbols in all forms. I don't want to imply this is you... simply that over the course of decades, this is something I have noticed.

 

My saying that I want a reliable car was more of a statement toward functionality. You have a difference of opinion. We'll agree to disagree.

 

The "costing me a fortune".. I was actually just saying a junker costs a ton of money to fix up. Didn't realize it came across as opposite of that. Either end of an extreme will cause problems.

 

Again, you're making the same false assumption. Just because a man values looks doesn't mean he doesn't care about personality. Just because a woman is hot doesn't mean she doesn't have a good intellect. Do you really think that there isn't a girl out there who's smarter than you and also extremely hot? Do you think that by not being hot (your own opinion), you automatically have a personality that's better than every girl that is hot? That's pretty arrogant.

Back up.. I never implied hot women were dumb, or that I was smarter/better, etc. I know there are a ton of "hot" women out there who are light years ahead of me in intellect and personality. Hell, 99% of the women on here are smarter then me and they look hotter then hell in their avators. What I did say was that my man loves and desires me for the inside, as much (if not more) then the outside. And it is because I don't date men who are focused on looks first, personality second, that I don't have to even entertain the thought that if I gain a few pounds that I'll be set out like yesterdays trash. And to me, being loved for the whole (even if the whole gets bigger) is priceless.

[Walk]

Or. . .the guys were looking for a quick score & figured you'd be a much easier target than some dime that's dressed to kill.

Quick score.. huh...

 

Interesting view on that... Is that how you view those women? Those who aren't "dressed to kill" are an easy score? So the dressed to kill are more... what...? virginal? smarter?

 

So, from your theory.. if I don't want to be seen as a slut then I should dress like a slut? Because, come on... dressed to kill at a bar type setting usually means hoochie mama attair. Absolute eye candy to any red blooded male.

 

I have really never heard this theory before, please expound. The many men I've talked to usually associate conservatively dressed women as more... prudish. Rather then the "easy score".

[blind_otter]

Quick score.. huh...

 

Interesting view on that... Is that how you view those women? Those who aren't "dressed to kill" are an easy score? So the dressed to kill are more... what...? virginal? smarter?

 

So, from your theory.. if I don't want to be seen as a slut then I should dress like a slut? Because, come on... dressed to kill at a bar type setting usually means hoochie mama attair. Absolute eye candy to any red blooded male.

 

I have really never heard this theory before, please expound. The many men I've talked to usually associate conservatively dressed women as more... prudish. Rather then the "easy score".

 

Why is not wearing jeans and a scrunchy now "Dressing as a slut"?

 

I'd think, if I saw a girl in a bar dressed like that, that she may be young, or a college student. Maybe that's an "easy score" to older men?

[MadDog]

Quick score.. huh...

 

Interesting view on that... Is that how you view those women? Those who aren't "dressed to kill" are an easy score? So the dressed to kill are more... what...? virginal? smarter?

 

So, from your theory.. if I don't want to be seen as a slut then I should dress like a slut? Because, come on... dressed to kill at a bar type setting usually means hoochie mama attair. Absolute eye candy to any red blooded male.

 

I have really never heard this theory before, please expound. The many men I've talked to usually associate conservatively dressed women as more... prudish. Rather then the "easy score".

 

It's not what I believe but some other guys might. Here's the idea. If a woman is at a bar either alone or with a female friend, there's a decent chance she's looking for some guys to talk to. Well, a guy can either go for the hottie, who most likely has a lot of guys giviing her attention throughout the night, or go for the regular looking chick where there's probably a lot less competition.

 

If he's just looking to get laid, he might feel he has a better chance with the woman who's not getting harrassed by all the guys. The ones dressed to kill could still be sluts but you'd still have to outcompete the other guys to get her home.

 

The men you've talked to have no idea what's up with women because some of them will dress the slut to get attention but are quite prudish while those that dress conservative can be freaks in the bedroom.

[catgirl1927]

This seems to be a thread of absolutes.

 

I don't think MadDog really only cares about appearances.

 

The important thing is, you have to hook up with someone who has similar values to me. You guys villify guys for caring about girls being pretty, but you know, I have pretty high standards as far as how good looking a guy has to be to catch my attention as well. Like follows like...

[blind_otter]

I ain't villifying no one. I like the way I look. And my vagina tastes great, and is less filling.

 

I wish everyone could feel that way about themselves.

 

Even guys.

[grateful]

so now we are debating if scrunchys are slutty? i think we've gotten to the level of conversation where the immortal words of Humpty Hump might help us out:

 

hey yo fat girl, c'mere--are ya ticklish?

Yeah, I called ya fat.

Look at me, I'm skinny

It never stopped me from gettin' busy

I'm a freak

I like the girls with the boom

I once got busy in a Burger King bathroom

I'm crazy.

Allow me to amaze thee.

They say I'm ugly but it just don't faze me.

I'm still gettin' in the girls' pants

and I even got my own dance

 

this excerpt might help as well:

 

People say "Yo, Humpty, you're really funny lookin'"

that's all right 'cause I get things cookin'

Ya stare, ya glare, ya constantly try to compare me

but ya can't get near me

I give 'em more, see, and on the floor, B,

all the girls they adore me

Oh yes, ladies, I'm really bein' sincere

'cause in a 69 my humpty nose will tickle ya rear.

My nose is big, uh-uh I'm not ashamed

Big like a pickle, I'm still gettin' paid

I get laid by the ladies, ya know I'm in charge,

both how I'm livin' and my nose is large

I get stoopid, I shoot an arrow like Cupid,

I use a word that don't mean nothin', like looptid

 

I'm including the chorus only because maybe I can get the song stuck in your head this way:

 

{Chorus:}

The Humpty Dance is your chance to do the hump

Do the Humpty Hump, come on and do the Humpty Hump

Do the Humpty Hump, just watch me do the Humpty Hump

Do ya know what I'm doin', doin' the Humpty Hump

Do the Humpty Hump, do the Humpty Hump

[blind_otter]

I'm including the chorus only because maybe I can get the song stuck in your head this way:

 

DAMN YOU! !! !! !!!!

 

(and carol, too)

[tinktronik]

so now we are debating if scrunchys are slutty? i think we've gotten to the level of conversation where the immortal words of Humpty Hump might help us out:

 

 

 

this excerpt might help as well:

 

 

 

I'm including the chorus only because maybe I can get the song stuck in your head this way:

 

What in the world does that have to do with ....anything?

[tinktronik]

ahhh ahhh ...Im doin' it baby ( sorry I couldent help it)

[grateful]

DAMN YOU! !! !! !!!!

 

(and carol, too)

 

 

um.......your welcome

[grateful]

What in the world does that have to do with ....anything?

 

 

are you serious? It's as plain as the honker on Shock G's face.

 

The lyrics playfully encourage us to not only live with our body shortcomings but to make the most of them. That Humpty Hump - so crafty: he can take care of two erogenous zones during a 69 even with his hands tied behind his back!

[MadDog]

And my vagina tastes great, and is less filling.

 

Have you actually tried it for yourself?

 

And following grateful, for all you ODB fans out there, an excerpt from "Got Your Money"

 

"Ohhh baby

I dedicate this to all the pretty girls

All the pretty girls

Its on [echo]

All the pretty girls, in the world

And the ugly girls too

Cause to me your pretty anyways baby"

 

I guess ODB knew what's up.

[blind_otter]

Have you actually tried it for yourself?

 

And following grateful, for all you ODB fans out there, an excerpt from "Got Your Money"

 

"Ohhh baby

I dedicate this to all the pretty girls

All the pretty girls

Its on [echo]

All the pretty girls, in the world

And the ugly girls too

Cause to me your pretty anyways baby"

 

I guess ODB knew what's up.

 

Dirk MacGirk doesn't know what's up or down as he drives one of his GF's to the welfare office in a limo. And didn't he change his name to Baby Jesus or something?

[MadDog]

Dirk MacGirk doesn't know what's up or down as he drives one of his GF's to the welfare office in a limo. And didn't he change his name to Baby Jesus or something?

 

I think ODB died.

[catgirl1927]

I ain't villifying no one. I like the way I look. And my vagina tastes great, and is less filling.

 

I wish everyone could feel that way about themselves.

 

Even guys.

 

If only we could all have skittle-flavored poonanny!

[blind_otter]

I think ODB died.

 

Well yeah. My point is you can hardly say he knows what's up. Since he didn't even settle on one moniker.

[tinktronik]

If only we could all have skittle-flavored poonanny!

 

Thats the key to happiness after all......(Tink runs out to the store to buy skittles).... :lmao:

[MadDog]

Thats the key to happiness after all......(Tink runs out to the store to buy skittles).... :lmao:

 

God, please don't. That reminds me of another internet video I wish I never saw.

[blind_otter]

God, please don't. That reminds me of another internet video I wish I never saw.

 

You need to start just saying NO to downloads, man.

[tinktronik]

God, please don't. That reminds me of another internet video I wish I never saw.

:confused: :lmao:

[MadDog]

You need to start just saying NO to downloads, man.

 

I get tricked into it. The description will say something like "2 hot girls showin' love xxx" except the girls aren't so hot & they show love in a way that makes me go limp for a good 24-48 hours.