tinktronik Posted April 5, 2006 Posted April 5, 2006 Hell I'm not fat. I am absolutely delicious. And my pussy tastes like wildberry skittles. here we go with the skittles again !
catgirl1927 Posted April 5, 2006 Posted April 5, 2006 Hahahahaha, please. No I don't think that at 34 you should be overweight or wearing the ortho shoes . And I think women in their 30's 40's 50's are beautiful , they just don't look 25 anymore , why would they want to? And yes , it may be the world you live in but it dose'nt have to be the one you promote. I did'nt say you should'ent care what you look like but don't be obsessed by it either . BTW my sister has had 5 kids , she'll never be a size 2 again but shes a size 7 , and there's absolutly nothing wrong with that. Wow, 5? Bless her heart.
a4a Posted April 5, 2006 Posted April 5, 2006 well it might taste like skittles but is it droopy? http://www.womensenews.org/article.cfm/dyn/aid/2067/context/cover
hotgurl Posted April 5, 2006 Posted April 5, 2006 Hell I'm not fat. I am absolutely delicious. And my pussy tastes like wildberry skittles. maybe you could start a weight loss program free licks to help people with thier sugar cravings! tastes great zero calories
blind_otter Posted April 5, 2006 Posted April 5, 2006 Personally I like Salma Hayek and Kate Winslet.
MadDog Posted April 5, 2006 Posted April 5, 2006 She's actually only a few months younger than me. So is Cameron Diaz. Her clock is ticking. She's smart too (attended Oxford.) She needs to have a bunch of kids, preferably with me, to pass on those killer genes.
blind_otter Posted April 5, 2006 Posted April 5, 2006 well it might taste like skittles but is it droopy? http://www.womensenews.org/article.cfm/dyn/aid/2067/context/cover HAH! I had a long conversation about pussies the other day. My ex-friend the lesbian stripper has what can only be described as roast beef curtains, and has long proclaimed that when she gets the dough, she's getting her tang altered. What is that. A lip lift? Mine looks like a sideways smile.
MadDog Posted April 5, 2006 Posted April 5, 2006 This girl: http://www.modelgraphy.com/us/album.html?pearl_nalani&id=43501e03cb6f8
Author Noos Posted April 6, 2006 Author Posted April 6, 2006 Well, cat girl, you think you look good as a size 4 at 163cm tall? Which would be size 8 at 163cm tall in Australia? I think you've still got latitude to look great at a US size 6. To the girl that told Catgirl to stop worrying about her weight etc. Fact: men only talk to girls they find physically attractive and ignore others, are even downright rude to others. If Catgirl wants to get married and have kids, she better be pretty and thin because no man crosses the room to admire a woman's personality or brain. My countrywoman Nicole Kidman is a highschool drop out, a pseudo-intellectual, insincere and vapid as ever, she's even a ham actor - but she's considered to be hot with borderline anorexia. That's f****d! I bet your sister was considered more valuable by men when she was thin. I am working on my second grad school degree, am 5'5" but until recently was again an AUS/UK size 14. I was invisible at that size despite being smart and friendly, but now I'm an AUS/UK size 10, guys are starting to be nice to me again. Oh, and Catgirl, I'm 33 too. Mad Dog - I don't get the whole Jessica Alba thing or Pearl Lani. Pearl looks like she should be working Patpong Road in Bali. Monica Bellucci is the most beautiful woman in the world, IMO.
MadDog Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 Mad Dog - I don't get the whole Jessica Alba thing or Pearl Lani. Pearl looks like she should be working Patpong Road in Bali. You don't get it because you're a chick.
catgirl1927 Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 ...no man crosses the room to admire a woman's personality or brain. That's the truth!!! I am working on my second grad school degree, am 5'5" but until recently was again an AUS/UK size 14. I was invisible at that size despite being smart and friendly, but now I'm an AUS/UK size 10, guys are starting to be nice to me again. Oh, and Catgirl, I'm 33 too. Yay! We're not old. These other people are just really, really young! I absolutely hate it when someone in their twenties tells me it's ungraceful for a "woman my age" to be so worried about the way I look. Like there's no reason for me to want to be sexy and attractive because it's all over for me anyway. I'm not the cryptkeeper, ya know! And it is SO gratifying to know that in a short 5 years or so, these girls will realize that you do not shut down and turn into a sexless lump when you hit 30. You still want to be attractive and sexy.
littlekitty Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 Hell I'll be working at keeping attractive and fit into my 60's I should hope. I don't ever intend to turn into a fat lump and wear frumpy clothes. Why the hell should I?!! I feel good when I'm fit and healthy and looking good, wearing something that makes me feel great. Why on earth would that change the minute we get over 30!! I'm there, and I don't see any signs of desire to wear tracksuit bottoms at all given opportunities and turn into a slob!! I intend to be a yummy mummy and a yummy grandmummy!!
a4a Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 When you turn thirty a van will pull up to your front door. They throw you into the van and take you to a undisclosed location. Once there they outfit you with polyester pants (crease down the front) with the elastic waist, pump cellulite into your thights and yank the underside of your chin to give you a Turkey waddle neck. They force feed you cheesecakes until you gain 60 -70 LBs. Once that is done they put you in the gravity chamber and force your tits to your knees and your ass to your ankles. They cut off all your hair and give you a really bad perm that looks like a brillo pad on your head, no need to comb or blow.... it has a life of it's own. You are then brainwashed to only take an interest in the home shopping club and Hallmark ornaments. You will also be taught to clip recipe articles out magazines and newspapers. You will also be outfitted with granny panties (not good for resale in bars to strangers), you will be brainwashed further into believing that plastic flowers are home decor. They will release you at the nearest grocery store where you will be driven by an unknown force to purchase prunes and preparation H.
littlekitty Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 When you turn thirty a van will pull up to your front door. They throw you into the van and take you to a undisclosed location. Once there they outfit you with polyester pants (crease down the front) with the elastic waist, pump cellulite into your thights and yank the underside of your chin to give you a Turkey waddle neck. They force feed you cheesecakes until you gain 60 -70 LBs. Once that is done they put you in the gravity chamber and force your tits to your knees and your ass to your ankles. They cut off all your hair and give you a really bad perm that looks like a brillo pad on your head, no need to comb or blow.... it has a life of it's own. You are then brainwashed to only take an interest in the home shopping club and Hallmark ornaments. You will also be taught to clip recipe articles out magazines and newspapers. You will also be outfitted with granny panties (not good for resale in bars to strangers), you will be brainwashed further into believing that plastic flowers are home decor. They will release you at the nearest grocery store where you will be driven by an unknown force to purchase prunes and preparation H. Personal experience here a4a?!!
Walk Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 Sorry, but I didn't read the whole thread.... My bf loves me heavier. The last three guys I've dated loved me with weight on. These were good looking, successful men. Had great jobs, good personalities, and great bodies. I was probably 15-20 lbs overweight and I'm only 5ft tall, so it looks like more. They all approached me. They all sexually and intellecutally desired me. It's not so much about "size" as it is attitude. The most beautiful women I see are the ones who believe they are beautiful. Same goes for guys. Confidence is sexy. Anyway, I've been gaining weight lately and felt a little insecure about it. My bf has been more randy then he normally is. I asked why, and he explained how gorgeous my curves and fullness were. How beautiful I am when I don't look so thin. Then took my hand and led me to the bedroom... I'm beautiful no matter what my weight. I want to be healthy for me. And I like to feel good about my body because it makes me feel sexy and confident, but I don't care how other people view it. Like someone else on here said, the times I was underweight, starving myself because I had no money for food, and working too many hours, those were the times women commented at how great I looked. Not men, only women. Society has some sick views on how women should look. Our perspectives are warped by the media. Stop watching tv and you'll feel a thousand times better about your body and yourself. It's the healthiest thing I've ever done for myself.
blind_otter Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 When you turn thirty a van will pull up to your front door. They throw you into the van and take you to a undisclosed location. Once there they outfit you with polyester pants (crease down the front) with the elastic waist, pump cellulite into your thights and yank the underside of your chin to give you a Turkey waddle neck. They force feed you cheesecakes until you gain 60 -70 LBs. Once that is done they put you in the gravity chamber and force your tits to your knees and your ass to your ankles. They cut off all your hair and give you a really bad perm that looks like a brillo pad on your head, no need to comb or blow.... it has a life of it's own. You are then brainwashed to only take an interest in the home shopping club and Hallmark ornaments. You will also be taught to clip recipe articles out magazines and newspapers. You will also be outfitted with granny panties (not good for resale in bars to strangers), you will be brainwashed further into believing that plastic flowers are home decor. They will release you at the nearest grocery store where you will be driven by an unknown force to purchase prunes and preparation H. This actually happened to both my older sisters.
catgirl1927 Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 When you turn thirty a van will pull up to your front door. They throw you into the van and take you to a undisclosed location. Once there they outfit you with polyester pants (crease down the front) with the elastic waist, pump cellulite into your thights and yank the underside of your chin to give you a Turkey waddle neck. They force feed you cheesecakes until you gain 60 -70 LBs. Once that is done they put you in the gravity chamber and force your tits to your knees and your ass to your ankles. They cut off all your hair and give you a really bad perm that looks like a brillo pad on your head, no need to comb or blow.... it has a life of it's own. You are then brainwashed to only take an interest in the home shopping club and Hallmark ornaments. You will also be taught to clip recipe articles out magazines and newspapers. You will also be outfitted with granny panties (not good for resale in bars to strangers), you will be brainwashed further into believing that plastic flowers are home decor. They will release you at the nearest grocery store where you will be driven by an unknown force to purchase prunes and preparation H. :lmao: There are actual tears in my eyes. This is SO HILARIOUS!!!!
Walk Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 My point is that all these women fussing about looking thin to be beautiful , that being what they are striving for, that dose'nt present very well for the young women . This is so true. I wish others would understand this. My grandmother used to praise my cousin endlessly on her thin body and good looks, and I felt discarded because I was pudgy. I was never "fat" just not super thin. I grew up believing I was ugly. No matter how thin I was, or how I looked, I believed I was ugly and no one could find me attractive. My mom would always make comments about how she needed to lose weight, always obsessed about her weight. I carried on the tradition. Times when I should have been enjoying life around me, I was focused on whether I looked fat. Wondering if others saw me as fat, hating myself for being overweight. I ruined whatever fun or positive experience I could've gained by just living, instead of obsessing over how I looked. I look back on pictures of me when I believed I was fat, and I was really beautiful. I really was. I wasted so much time in worrying how I looked. And I vowed I'd never have kids until I conquered this aspect of myself. I didn't want to instill in my child the obsession and feeling of unworthiness I felt while growing up. It over took my life. Became consuming. And for what? No matter how hard I worked out, or how little I ate, I never felt beautiful. I couldn't be beautiful until I accepted myself for who I am. The whole me, not just the outward appearance. I was so harsh on myself that no matter what I looked like, it was never good enough. But those pictures of me show a beautiful woman. I wasted so many years letting my skewed perspective on my looks ruin my life. I won't allow it anymore. I want to enjoy life, not live in constant obsession and self-hatred.
littlekitty Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 I won't allow it anymore. I want to enjoy life, not live in constant obsession and self-hatred. Anyone who allows an obsession with how they look and how fat they are rule thier life has a problem, and does need help. There's a big difference between caring about it, and obsessing about it. I care about how I look, I always will. But I don't spend hours worrying about it, and I certainly don't let it stop me doing anything, including eating that big cream cake!! There are more important things. But I will always like to look well turned out! It's all about finding middle ground. I suspect you still like to look good, you just don't let it rule your life?
grateful Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 To the girl that told Catgirl to stop worrying about her weight etc. Fact: men only talk to girls they find physically attractive and ignore others, are even downright rude to others. If Catgirl wants to get married and have kids, she better be pretty and thin because no man crosses the room to admire a woman's personality or brain. This is untrue and such a sad case of self-loathing that it brought tears to my eyes. And I don't even know you. I guess maybe you could revise this one sentence to "If Catgirl wants to get married to a shallow and superficial man and have kids, she better be pretty and thin because no man crosses the room to admire a woman's personality or brain." Hugs to you.
catgirl1927 Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 This is untrue and such a sad case of self-loathing that it brought tears to my eyes. And I don't even know you. I guess maybe you could revise this one sentence to "If Catgirl wants to get married to a shallow and superficial man and have kids, she better be pretty and thin because no man crosses the room to admire a woman's personality or brain." Hugs to you. Whether we like it or not, the truth is the truth.
blind_otter Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 To me, my body is a tool. I was in ballet for so long, around girls who would swllow cotton balls to feel full, but I thought of my body as something to use, to increase its functionality so that I could use it to do more things. It's nothing more. I did bellydancing for a while, like 4 or 5 years, in my late teens, early 20s and danced and parties and festivals and got hired to do a production with a local ballet company. I really learned to value my body and love myself then, not just see my body as a tool. I mean, this is what you've got, what you live with every day. It would feel awful to dislike it! Also, going to massage school helped. Everyone runs around naked there, hippies and regular folk, and I just find all sorts of bodies beautiful. I dunno. I feel blessed in this respect. When I used to teach dance to adult women, a huge part of the class would be about helping the women accept and love the way their bodies look. It was strange how tight their hips would be, how they would unconsciously clench their ass cheeks together, how their whole bodies were so tight, and not in a good way -- even the way they held themselves, was so sad...like they held their own bodies at arm's length.
catgirl1927 Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 I mean, this is what you've got, what you live with every day. It would feel awful to dislike it! It is awful. Very awful.
Walk Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 Whether we like it or not, the truth is the truth. You've warped the truth. I haven't found this to be true in any sense. Guys have and will cross a crowded room to talk to me, and I'm not model thin. Hell, I'm chubby. And like I said, the guys are good looking. Not creeps or ugly. I think you need to find a different place to hang out. Maybe somewhere that doesn't cater to immature boys. You're experience has jaded you, which could come from non-verbal body language that your projecting. Or possibly situations your sub-conciously setting up. In order to change your situation, then you need to change your thinking. But your "truth" is not true.
grateful Posted April 6, 2006 Posted April 6, 2006 Sorry, but I didn't read the whole thread.... My bf loves me heavier. The last three guys I've dated loved me with weight on. These were good looking, successful men. Had great jobs, good personalities, and great bodies. I was probably 15-20 lbs overweight and I'm only 5ft tall, so it looks like more. They all approached me. They all sexually and intellecutally desired me. It's not so much about "size" as it is attitude. The most beautiful women I see are the ones who believe they are beautiful. Same goes for guys. Confidence is sexy. Anyway, I've been gaining weight lately and felt a little insecure about it. My bf has been more randy then he normally is. I asked why, and he explained how gorgeous my curves and fullness were. How beautiful I am when I don't look so thin. Then took my hand and led me to the bedroom... I'm beautiful no matter what my weight. I want to be healthy for me. And I like to feel good about my body because it makes me feel sexy and confident, but I don't care how other people view it. Like someone else on here said, the times I was underweight, starving myself because I had no money for food, and working too many hours, those were the times women commented at how great I looked. Not men, only women. Society has some sick views on how women should look. Our perspectives are warped by the media. Stop watching tv and you'll feel a thousand times better about your body and yourself. It's the healthiest thing I've ever done for myself. This had to be reposted. Thank you Walk for briging some sense to this discussion. We as women are so affected by society's expectations that we internalize the sick views that you describe. I am definitely fat, by most of the women's definitions in this thread, like Walk I'm 15-20 lbs overweight. My SO loves my body, grabs my hips and butt all the time, and always says "you are not fat!" if I say anything about being overweight. He would never monitor what I eat. He tells me how wonderful my body is. I've always been confident about my body but he only adds to it. And all the men who cross the room to chat me up, despite Noos' rule, also give me ego boosts. And they aren't crossing the room to admire my brains and personality. They like my body and my confidence, and after chatting with me, my brain and personality as well. A woman who loves her body will never, ever lack men approaching her. A woman who loves herself, despite what society wants her to believe, will have the man she wants wanting to love her too. And most of the men in her social circle wishing they had a woman like her. Sound conceited? Many of you would never expect this kind of confidence from a "fat girl." Just be healthy. And love yourself. Appreciate your body for what it is. Love what you've got going for you rather than focus on your flaws. For instance I have great hair, nice hips, and saggy boobs. I'm not getting a breast lift, I just figure that's how they are... so what?
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