neiu Posted April 4, 2006 Posted April 4, 2006 So I just need some help with something. Met a girl, 2 weeks ago and we really hit it off. Went on dates and the whole thing and seemed like things were going well. Suddenly she has to leave and go home for a family related reason and I'm not sure when I will see her again. I do like this girl a lot and i could see it going somewhere and would atleast like to give it a try. It's not like anything bad happened to us, just unexpected event leading to some pretty bad timing. We both agreed to keep in contact and we would see each other again because she still has exams to write. Should I just tell her how I feel and that I would like to try or just let things be and see how things go up to the point of if and when i see her again? I mean it's not like she lives that far but it's far enough that she won't be making a drive to see me and vice versa. I'm just sort of lost as to what to do.
whichwayisup Posted April 4, 2006 Posted April 4, 2006 Tell her that you're looking forward to seeing her again when thing settle down and life goes back to normal. Mention that you'd love to take her out for a really nice dinner! Try not to worry, she's given you no real indication that she's not interested. She said she'd like to stay in contact, so believe that.
Author neiu Posted April 4, 2006 Author Posted April 4, 2006 Yeah I'll do something nice for her when she comes back. It's true that she hasn't given me any indication that she doesn't want anything further from it. She is the one who wants us to stay in contact and still talk and see each other when possible. So I guess I'll try and see how things go with her. It just sucks how things turn so unexpectedly but that's life i guess. But do you guys think I should actually tell her that I do like her a lot and would like to continue things with her. I haven't said anything to her about how much I like her yet cause I didn't want to give away anything too soon. But I mean now that she is gone, she doesn't know how I reallly feel and I don't want to be stuck in that position of just becoming a friend. I didn't say anything either when she told me that she was leaving just because I was just in shock as to what had just happened and I didn't want to push anything since it was a family reason
whichwayisup Posted April 4, 2006 Posted April 4, 2006 Why not send her flowers one day? Scented lillies or a bouquet of spring flowers? (Don't do roses...) By doing this she will feel good and smile! And she'll also realize that you DO like her.
Author neiu Posted April 4, 2006 Author Posted April 4, 2006 I know that gifts to say a lot but do you think they actually can replace words? or do the gifts help compliment the words and feelings you say and have for someone?
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