UT_longhorn Posted April 3, 2006 Posted April 3, 2006 Hey everyone…hopw you guys are doing well. I have been posting limitedly lately, but have been reading up on all you guys' progress. its been 3 months since my breakup. Spoke only a couple of times but pretty much maintained NC throughout. I just cant stop thinking that this is so unfair. I hurt. She doesn't. I want, she doesn't. I know people say it's going to get better…but I don't see an end in sight. I think of her all the time. I wish for her to be with me all the time. Is 3 months still short? Is this going to stay with me forever, cause that’s what is freakin seems like. It does really get frustrating that I feel like I'm walking such a lonely life without her now, and shes so happy without me. I'm venting but also looking for some hope. Thanks guys.
BrainRightHeartWrong Posted April 4, 2006 Posted April 4, 2006 here dude i'm in the same boat except for 5 months now and i don't feel any better i feel exactly as you do, to be honest i thought about suicide and exactly how i would do it and i know i'd be good at it but i can't treat my mother like that just tonight i've started to listen to 'our' music again, i might as well as trying to 'blank' my ex out isn't working why i feel sad i don't know except i do know, when i get a reminder i feel a complete loss of my ex and our relationship don't put yourself under pressure considering a time period to get over your gf as this will make you feel even worse, it took me 3 years one time to recover so don't put a time period on your recovery! i personally couldn't take this stress again
Incubus075 Posted April 4, 2006 Posted April 4, 2006 Its rough dude but it does get better. Its been about a year for me and I still feel crappy at times. But I get to see her myspace page and how happy she is with her new man. I see her saying the same things she said to me. I would recommend 2 things to help. 1) Do something to occupy yourself. I go back into working out, running, boxing, etc. Physical exercise is great and it gets you healthy and looking good for the next person you meet (and raises your value). 2) Get out and date. I know this part is especially hard but you gotta do. I know you compare people to her and it makes you think about her more but until you have someone to move into that spot, it can be hard. But youre not alone out there.
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