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Men & Women....Body Language....List 5 for each....

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longlegzs80 Established Member

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I'd love to have this be the thread where people can find out valueable info on both men and women about their body language and if their body language is showing signs of interest or not in that person who is interested. I don't know much about body language so this thread could be very helpful for those of us to are clueless in reading the body and what certain things mean.

 

So, for all who are interested in participating, list 5 things that SHOW someone from the opposite sex both men and women, if that person is interested or not in them.

 

5 FOR WOMEN and 5 FOR MEN

justagirliegirl Established Member

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If the man has his pants down around his ankles with a raging hard on, I'm pretty sure he's interested...I think...:lmao:

nicki Established Member

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:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

 

Umm, here are mine, from my perspective. If I'm interested in a guy, you might see this kind of behavior:

 

1. I touch him. Probably his forearm. Maybe I pretend to pick off some lint or a hair. Maybe I just touch him and hold his eyes for a moment.

 

2. I mirror his actions. If he takes a drink, I do too. I sit in the same basic position he is in.

 

3. I will touch myself a bit. Maybe my collar-bone or neck. Stroke/smooth my hair. Touch my mouth or lick my lip. Slowly apply lipstick. Adjust thigh high stocking, etc.

 

4. Stare at him a little. Also, let him catch me checking out his body parts when I think he's not noticing (but I know he sees me.)

 

5. I will angle my body towards his. My torso will face him. I will lean towards him. I will cross my leg towards him. I will keep my arms open and relaxed.

 

If that doesn't work, then maybe I'll take a cue from "justagirlie." Just start stripping. Nothing says "I'm interested" like a little nudity. ;) !

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:lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

 

WELL, that is one way to tell. But how about with clothes on....:D

 

 

If the man has his pants down around his ankles with a raging hard on, I'm pretty sure he's interested...I think...:lmao:
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recommended by nicki, but my question is, wouldn't it be ackward to touch him if the both of you haven't really made much conversation? When is it approprite to touch his arm, shoulder, etc., when your finding out if he is interested?

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I would only touch a little, infrequently, but I would do it fairly early on to gauge interest.

 

I always shake someone's hand when I first meet them. After that, I like to sit and talk for a while. Then I'd do a test touch.

 

For instance, if he told a funny joke, I might laugh and touch his forearm. A woman can tell if a guy likes it or not. If he liked it, he would lean in towards me, smile, etc. If he didn't like it, he would probably pull away and not smile.

 

Just depends. I wouldn't over touch him, however. I'd wait until it seemed natural.

 

On the flip side, I don't like a guy to get too touchy with me too soon. I like it better when he waits until I start doing it. Then I get to set the pace.

 

In my experience, a guy who is super touchy too early can be pushy for sex.

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KnowHowLoveFeels Established Member

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5 things that a guy would do to convince met that he's interested in me:

 

#5: He talks to me with the intention of amusing me.

#4: He touches me - my arm, my hair, my hand - with innocent excuses.

#3: He laughs with me.

#2: He dresses nicely and grooms himself when he knows that I'd see him.

#1: He looks at me intensely and follows me around with his eyes! :love:

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Curmudgeon Established Member

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HEY! I'm a guy. We're not supposed to be that observant and "in tune" are we?

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HEY! I'm a guy. We're not supposed to be that observant and "in tune" are we?

 

Yes! Actually, the men who got my attention passed the 5 signs I mentioned.:laugh:

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This is an interesting thread. Me and my bf talked about the first time we met. I hadn't dated anyone in over 2 year when we first met because I had been pregnant and had son who was almost a year so needless to say my confidence level wasn't too high. We went to eat first then went to see a movie. He told me later the reason he didn't make any moves throughout the date was because I always had my arms crossed and was kind of inward. I hadn't even noticed!! And I was totally into him. So my insecurities came across as "not interested"

 

On the flip side, he did lots of things that made me giddy and let me know he was interested. For example, during the movie I wore his cap, and it was too big so it kept slipping over my eyes and my hair would hang in my face, so I would look at him and he would laugh, then take his index finger and gently raise the cap up and smooth my hair behind my ear. Such a small thing but it made me weak at the knees!! :love: :love: So to all you men out there, I hope you all realize how much a simple guesture can do for a women!! ;)

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recommended by nicki, but my question is, wouldn't it be ackward to touch him if the both of you haven't really made much conversation? When is it approprite to touch his arm, shoulder, etc., when your finding out if he is interested?

 

imagine sitting at a bar and hes sitting next to you. If you turn to face his and your leg is touching his...don't move it!! ;)

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