VideoKid Posted April 2, 2006 Posted April 2, 2006 I really don't know what to do over this situation. I'd been with my ex a year and we just split up a while ago for the 2nd time. First time was over a stupid arguement and we got back together after 6 days. This time my ex is having a bit of a stressful time because he doesn't know if his life is going where he wants it to. It gets a bit complicated now so don't give up reading! He says our relationship is the best he's ever been in but wants some time alone to see if he prefers being single or if he wants to be in a relationship. He keeps going on about "the one" and doesn't know whether to stay with me if I am the one or not incase I'm not if that makes any sense. Well it doesn't much to me either. Even though we're split up though we're still seeing eachother all the time, we work together so we've been hanging out at work and at eachothers houses friday, saturday and today. I even slept over his house last night in the same bed, I know some of you would say that was stupid but I know we both still care about eachother. What's upsetting me most is he split up with me and says he wants to be friends yet he's still hugging me and sometimes kissing me, to others we must still look like a couple. Nearly the end now Today he asked me out on 2 dates this tuesday and next tuesday when we have tickets to go on a trip anyway to see how things go although he's still not sure. I guess it doesn't seem that much of a problem but it's really really upsetting me so I could use some advice on what I should do on the situation. We're not kids or anything but still fairly young to be talking about "the one" and him making a decision for the long term now so it seems a bit stupid to me. I don't know, any insight would be helpful.
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