KnowHowLoveFeels Posted April 3, 2006 Posted April 3, 2006 B_O, you are not treating yourself right!!
Art_Critic Posted April 3, 2006 Posted April 3, 2006 Nah. I'm hot and I serially date broke ass losers. I'm all yours babe .. just come to Atlanta I'm not broke..
alphamale Posted April 4, 2006 Posted April 4, 2006 Hey AMERIKAJIN....I saw that great movie last nite on TV. It was called Sayonara (1957) and starred the great Marlon Brando and Red Buttons. It was about US servicemen stationed in Japan during the Korean War and how they fell in love with and married Japanese women and all the hassles associated with that. You should watch it.
kitten chick Posted April 4, 2006 Posted April 4, 2006 Nah. I'm hot and I serially date broke ass losers. Ditto. Well I used to be hot and I used to serially date broke ass losers. I'm not hot anymore nor do I date anyone anymore. amerikajin, I've been following your threads on this woman. I don't really know what advice to offer besides following your instincts. If you feel like it's time to pull away then perhaps it is. Try to do it in a way that won't burn any bridges if this is something you want to put on the back burner.
Author amerikajin Posted April 4, 2006 Author Posted April 4, 2006 Well I've been pulling back quite a bit the last 24-48 hours and I think it's getting her attention. She kept nagging me to call her, which I finally did. But again, I think it's like she expects to be treated like royalty. Honestly, the more I spend time with this chick, the less I dig her. I mean, she's a decent person and all, but I am beginning to think she's got some issues when it comes to relationships. I had volunteered to help her move her stuff into her new apartment, but that was last week when I thought I knew where I stood with her. Now, I'm just not so sure anymore. I'm kinda like Tanbark...I wish I could just bail, but I sorta think that wouldn't be the gentlemanly thing to do.
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted April 5, 2006 Posted April 5, 2006 Well I've been pulling back quite a bit the last 24-48 hours and I think it's getting her attention. She kept nagging me to call her, which I finally did. Now I don't understand WHY she's asking you to call her. Why can't she just get a hold of you if it was urgent? But again, I think it's like she expects to be treated like royalty. Honestly, the more I spend time with this chick, the less I dig her. I mean, she's a decent person and all, but I am beginning to think she's got some issues when it comes to relationships. I had volunteered to help her move her stuff into her new apartment, but that was last week when I thought I knew where I stood with her. Now, I'm just not so sure anymore. I'm kinda like Tanbark...I wish I could just bail, but I sorta think that wouldn't be the gentlemanly thing to do. Yup! I agree with you 100% here - she wants to be treated like royalty and she is getting it from you! I know soooo many women like that - so absolutely shallow and selfcentered! Tell her what you are feeling and how you NEED to distance from her a bit. Do not help her with the move and don't feel guilty about it - unless you know that she absolutely cannot get help from someone else. Best of luck.
Author amerikajin Posted April 5, 2006 Author Posted April 5, 2006 Trallala, You didn't have any right to be mad at all. Why does she owe you a date? It would be better if she came out clean and told you that she is not that interested, but why don't you ask her about her feelings? I missed the above earlier. I agree with or can at least understand a lot of what you said, but not the above. I'm sorry, but I did have a right to be pissed off. It should have been more measured a response than it was, but I have a right not to be jerked around. It's just common courtesy - when you say you're going to be somewhere at a certain time, you live up to your end of the agreement. You're throwing the word 'adult' around as if to suggest I'm somehow not acting like an adult. I think the adult thing to do is for her to come out and tell me if she's 'not that interested', but since I accept that's easier said than done, I only ask that she simply stop returning my phone calls or make it somehow obvious that she's not that into me. To date, she hasn't. In fact, she's let me become rather intimate with her. Now what exactly am I supposed to believe? You seem to be taking her side, as if she has no responsibility. I disagree with that. Nevertheless, as you suggest, the facts appear to be indicating more and more that she's got the upper hand in this relationship, and she knows it. And that's basically because I've been more into her than she has been into me. And I get that. And I guess I need to address that somehow.
MadDog Posted April 5, 2006 Posted April 5, 2006 Nevertheless, as you suggest, the facts appear to be indicating more and more that she's got the upper hand in this relationship, and she knows it. And that's basically because I've been more into her than she has been into me. And I get that. And I guess I need to address that somehow. And the perfect way to do that is to hook up with a chick even hotter than her. Then she'll see what's really up. Hot girls have a tendency to pull this stuff when they realize a dude is really into them. Don't let her play this game with you.
Author amerikajin Posted April 5, 2006 Author Posted April 5, 2006 And the perfect way to do that is to hook up with a chick even hotter than her. Then she'll see what's really up. Hot girls have a tendency to pull this stuff when they realize a dude is really into them. Don't let her play this game with you. Nah, the best thing to do is to move on. Don't know if I'm there yet, but might be. Just have to feel it out.
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