jgbronc Posted April 2, 2006 Posted April 2, 2006 Okay, I am really interested in this woman. I have known her for about a year and we were friends up until last week. She came over for dinner and we had a great time. We made out like crazy but didn't go all the way. Pretty cool in my book I think. I called her the day after and she called two days later. Pleasant on the phone and I asked her out to another date - dinner and a movie. She said yes and I told her to call me when she had an evening in mind. A few days passed and she called me from her place of work simply to say "I wanted to call you". However she made no mention of another date. So I sent her a cute text message yesterday and have not heard anything since. Am I just being weird or does she sound interested but a little cautious? What is my next move? Wait another week for her to initiate or should I take the plunge and make the mistake of looking needy? So confusing!
Groovy Posted April 2, 2006 Posted April 2, 2006 Forget about all the semantic BS of shoulds and should nots...just ask her out. Any woman likes pursuit and it only looks needy if your calling each and every day. (Unless she's in high school and she may be a little different than from a "woman"). If she's not interested you can focus on someone who is and move on.
Yamaha Posted April 2, 2006 Posted April 2, 2006 I would say she's second guessing whether she wants to move your friendship to the next level. I would let her make the next move. If she's interested she will let you know, in her own time. Pushing her might make her end your friendship completely. Don't bring up your situation for a few days and she how she reacts. If she doesn't talk about it and continues as you were ( as friends ) then she has decided to leave your relationship at the friends level. If you can accept this then you can continue as usual but if you find you can't just be friends you will have to remove yourself and find someone who wants the same thing you do.
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