krispie Posted April 1, 2006 Posted April 1, 2006 I met this guy at a club...he called me a week later. Right now, he's saying he likes me, and wants to date me as well. However, this guy is 9 years older than me. For some reason, I don't feel easy about this. It's not like I don't like him..I find myself thinking about us all the time but I can't straight up admit that I like him. I don't have that "feeling". I'm not sure what to do as well..................................... Can someone give me some advice?
agnf666 Posted April 1, 2006 Posted April 1, 2006 Well... first of all age is nothing but a number. I would go out with him once and see what happens... If the age thing makes you feel uncomfortable then that is something you will probably will never get over. If you aren't interested then just simply just let him down nicely...
Author krispie Posted April 1, 2006 Author Posted April 1, 2006 Yeah, I might try to go out with him once. Even I'm not sure about how I feel right now.
agnf666 Posted April 1, 2006 Posted April 1, 2006 Well if you don't like him then don't go. That is the best advice I can give you. Can I ask how old the both of you are?
agnf666 Posted April 1, 2006 Posted April 1, 2006 Now, I can see how this may be a problem. If you were like 20 or something it wouldn't be that bad... If you feel uncomfortable about it then don't do it... Just tell him that you only date people around your age. He should understand.
destination_unknown Posted April 2, 2006 Posted April 2, 2006 This is funny for me because six years ago a guy asked my sister out. She was like, well he is 8 years older than me and i'm not really attracted to him. My mom was like "for gods sake, your not going to marry the guy just go for dinner with him" my dad told that story in his speech at their wedding three years ago! they have a lovely house, are still totally in love and have a beautiful child. you never know unless you go! Edited to say: ok, just saw the age difference, maybe not at 17, you are both at very different life stages, my sis was 24. I will leave my story in for others though!
Author krispie Posted April 2, 2006 Author Posted April 2, 2006 aw thats a really cute story! Yeah. I'm probably going to see him once just to see how things go? It'll be with a group of my friends (at a club) so I hope everything will be ok.
MadDog Posted April 2, 2006 Posted April 2, 2006 What kind of 26 year old guy hangs out at clubs where there are 17 year olds? MD
Art_Critic Posted April 2, 2006 Posted April 2, 2006 Errr. It's actually a 19+ club. You missed the point MD was trying to say
MadDog Posted April 2, 2006 Posted April 2, 2006 Errr. It's actually a 19+ club. Ok. What kind of 26 year old guy hangs out at a 19+ club? Does he just do this during the downtime when prom isn't in season or what? MD
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