joel Posted April 1, 2006 Posted April 1, 2006 ok met the gal off the net -first time we met it was coffee-good chat she talks a lot which is good, last night was dinner at tgi's-i paid for it total 30 bucks. so far we jsut been chatting about school and her new job as a finanical services person....life, movies, her freinds, HS, music....what not. the thing is i haven;t kissed, hold hands, or done any physical activty with her yet-since i not sure when to do that-25 never had a gf or even dated. i don;t want to come off too fast and lose her but i don't want to go too slow and get into the freind zone. when is a good time to kiss or show some physical sides-holdhands, cuddle..etc. also i don;t even now how to kiss-how can i practice and wheere should i kiss her-it be at some public place i guess. also at the same time i don;t want to spend too much or any money, i'm a student, she works-but low wages. shes nice but i still hardly now her and not sure if this girl is even my type-personaitly wise, we did chat a lot though-i'm so inexp that i don;t even now what i'm looking for and if shes the one. physical looking shes avg looking, i like to go for the trendy clothes hot import model looking types but i get rejected and can't even get a date with one of those-most of those type of girls have bfs already-since they are so hot. also we both live at home-so far my place is out of the quesiton my folks are always at home,not sure about hers. no car either so its like we do we do it. hotel -well too much $$ any suggestions
MadDog Posted April 1, 2006 Posted April 1, 2006 physical looking shes avg looking, i like to go for the trendy clothes hot import model looking types but i get rejected and can't even get a date with one of those-most of those type of girls have bfs already-since they are so hot. Tell her what you just told us. She'll be begging you to hop into the sack in no time. MD
TheSwordfish Posted April 1, 2006 Posted April 1, 2006 Oh my god.... I like good looking girls... and I don't go for anything less then my taste. it would scare the crap out of me, to kiss someone I don't find attractive. Well, about practising kissing.... well one kiss with a girl should be enough to learn it. Just get the moment right and let her take the lead.
agnf666 Posted April 1, 2006 Posted April 1, 2006 You need to start out with the little things first. Starting slow is not a bad thing. Maybe the next time you go out at the end of the date or something kiss her... You will know when the timing is right, by her reaction. If she doesn't want to kiss you yet she will either back off or turn away. If you don't to get into the friends zone then you need to become a little more physical. Since this is kindof your 3 date it's totally exceptable to kiss!!! She will more then likely be looking for one by then too! Maybe the next time you two go out you should catch a movie or something... That can make things get physical easier...
Mary3 Posted April 2, 2006 Posted April 2, 2006 Why don't you put a bag over her head and pretend she's rich ?
jerbear Posted April 2, 2006 Posted April 2, 2006 Why don't you put a bag over her head and pretend she's rich ? :lmao: :lmao: I said that once to a friend. But added that there is always from behind. My personaly view is, do whatever you feel right. From our favorite sports wear commercials, JUST DO IT!, darn it.
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