Guest Posted March 31, 2006 Posted March 31, 2006 Ok, so I've been called "demanding" on more than one occasion. Its just in my nature. I'm now beginning to wonder if its wreaking havoc on my relationship or if my bf is "just not into me"...please someone, ANYONE offer some insight! The issue herein lies with my bf of 8 months - he lives an hour away & works 7 days a week. We see each other once a week due to the distance and his work schedule. I'd love to see more of course but this is life. Whenever we're together, he treats me like a princess...opens car doors/doors in general, massages, cuddling, taking me out to eat wherever I want to go, baby talks to me, very attentive. We also make sure to talk every night & he is always very inquisitive about me & my day, etc. However, sometimes I begin to wonder. There are rare times he DOES get a day off of work where he can see me but chooses not to. For example, tomorrow he's not working. I asked him if he'd like to get together but he's already got plans with his buddies. Other times he's had days off which is rare, he makes no effort to see me. Granted, I will see him at some point this weekend for "couple time", but shouldn't he want to see his girl if he's not working? Or is it understandable for him to want a day to himself or with his buddies since he's usually always working? Also, does this strike anyone as strange...last Fri night I wanted to get together but he said he already had plans...these plans included dinner with other couples from his job. When I asked why I was not invited, if he was going out with other couples (being his gf & all), he said because I live an hour away...but still did not invite me, even when he realized I was upset. Isn't it weird to be in the company of other couples without YOUR SO? I am not the most rationale person, I have a tendenacy to over-react & I can be a little clingy at times...so I'd really appreciate some feedback. Am I just being a spoiled brat or is "he just not into me"? Thanks in advance.
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