IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 I'm gonna have to go with Kitten Chick....It just may be that you guys are not meant to be in a relationship..Are you guys past the comfortable stage? If so, it's gonna be hard to get out now. Wish you saw this earlier. Not saying that's definitly the case.
Guest Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 maybe shes jealous of the attention you get from people.. mainly girls....
Author tanbark813 Posted March 30, 2006 Author Posted March 30, 2006 Are you guys past the comfortable stage? I don't know. We never really had a honeymoon stage either. It went from dating to quit-getting-on-my-nerves stage.
catgirl1927 Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 I have to wonder if that whole "don't be so cocky" is more about who is getting the attention. She just might not like not being center stage all the time.
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 :eek: It went from dating to quit-getting-on-my-nerves stage. :eek: That's like the "were not compatable" motto! Well then It's not to late! You know what you have to do. You don't need us to tell you.
alphamale Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 umm...yeah, so let me get this straight. OK *deep breath*. This woman: - flirts with other dudes and sits in her male "friend's" lap - takes other calls while she's talking with you - does not support your karaoke/singing abilities sounds as if she has little respect for you. you should dump her.
catgirl1927 Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 umm...yeah, so let me get this straight. OK *deep breath*. This woman: - flirts with other dudes and sits in her male "friend's" lap - takes other calls while she's talking with you - does not support your karaoke/singing abilities sounds as if she has little respect for you. you should dump her. Rarely do I agree with alphamale, which should indicate to you how MUCH you really need to dump this girl. I mean, how hot could she be?
Author tanbark813 Posted March 30, 2006 Author Posted March 30, 2006 Rarely do I agree with alphamale, which should indicate to you how MUCH you really need to dump this girl. I mean, how hot could she be? Well I do like her full latina lips. The respect thing did come up last night actually. She always talks about how she's big on respect. Last night I made the comment that while she expects a lot of respect from people, she doesn't always give it.
alphamale Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 Rarely do I agree with alphamale, it is really unnecessary but thanx anyways for the validation CATGIRL
alphamale Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 Last night I made the comment that while she expects a lot of respect from people, she doesn't always give it. Latino chicks are firecrackers; they usually need a strong man to keep them in line.
Mz. Pixie Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 Her comments about how she likes to put you in your place or whatever because you are cocky does not jive with her comments that you are "not really like that" If you are not really like that why would she feel the need to take you down a peg?? I echo whoever said it's more about she's not getting the attention!
Author tanbark813 Posted March 30, 2006 Author Posted March 30, 2006 Her comments about how she likes to put you in your place or whatever because you are cocky does not jive with her comments that you are "not really like that" If you are not really like that why would she feel the need to take you down a peg?? To clarify, she said that when she first met me she got the impression that I was cocky. But she thought at the time it was an act. Now, she still thinks I'm cocky, but thinks this is how I am. So she wants me to be less cocky. The ironic thing is that from the beginning she has always said that my self-confidence was one thing she really liked about me.
alphamale Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 So she wants me to be less cocky.. Don't change who or what you are for anyone. She likes you the way she found you initially. This is a test on her part to see what you are made of..... If you become less cocky you may as well dig yourself a grave, hop into it, and rot for the rest of eternity.
Author tanbark813 Posted March 30, 2006 Author Posted March 30, 2006 Don't change who or what you are for anyone. She likes you the way she found you initially. This is a test on her part to see what you are made of..... That could be true.
Author tanbark813 Posted March 30, 2006 Author Posted March 30, 2006 maybe shes jealous of the attention you get from people.. mainly girls.... (I didn't see this earlier.) That could be true. She has kind of half-jokingly pointed out that if other people cheer for me, my attention shifts immediately to them.
blind_otter Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 (I didn't see this earlier.) That could be true. She has kind of half-jokingly pointed out that if other people cheer for me, my attention shifts immediately to them. Well what are you supposed to do? Ignore your fans?
Author tanbark813 Posted March 30, 2006 Author Posted March 30, 2006 Well what are you supposed to do? Ignore your fans? Exactly. My public needs me.
bluetuesday Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 you love the smell of beer-stained wood? if that's you, you sing real nice btw. also, i really like the dancing trees.
Author tanbark813 Posted March 31, 2006 Author Posted March 31, 2006 you love the smell of beer-stained wood? if that's you, you sing real nice btw. also, i really like the dancing trees. I do. It is me, and thanks on both counts.
gfto Posted March 31, 2006 Posted March 31, 2006 My gf gets up mid-sentence, walks over to one of the guys, hugs him, and talks to him for a few minutes. Very disrespectful. I remember your whole saga with this girl from another thread a while back. It wouldn't bother me that she got up and hugged a guy friend. But, doing it in the middle of a sentence would have just about sealed it for me. bub-bye. And, the fact that this girl doesn't even say, "sounds good honey," when you get up to sing (even if it didn't sound good!), is a huge red flag.
Sassy Posted March 31, 2006 Posted March 31, 2006 Tan honey you deserve better than this girl. She isn't supporting you in anything and when you two go to a karoke bar she is always on guys !! She isn't gf material in my eyes. Please find someone that deserves you .
gfto Posted March 31, 2006 Posted March 31, 2006 Tan honey you deserve better than this girl. She isn't supporting you in anything and when you two go to a karoke bar she is always on guys !! She isn't gf material in my eyes. Please find someone that deserves you . Absolutely agree. Amen.
whichwayisup Posted March 31, 2006 Posted March 31, 2006 To be honest, I think both of you are delaying the obvious...It's only a matter of time. Can I ask? I know you have feelings for her, but are you INLOVE with her? DO you think she is inlove with you? I just see things not working out just from what you've been posting about here and previously.
Author tanbark813 Posted March 31, 2006 Author Posted March 31, 2006 Thanks, gfto and Sassy. To be honest, I think both of you are delaying the obvious...It's only a matter of time. Can I ask? I know you have feelings for her, but are you INLOVE with her? DO you think she is inlove with you? I just see things not working out just from what you've been posting about here and previously. No, I'm not in love with her. I don't know if she is with me or not. That hasn't come up at all.
whichwayisup Posted March 31, 2006 Posted March 31, 2006 I just wonder if she is worth all the effort. Especially if you're not inlove with her. Just a feeling I have (and had throughout your other posts too) that you two really aren't right for eachother. (Out of bed, lol!)
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