VideoKid Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 Hi everyone, well my boyfriend of almost a year split up with me last night. We had a slight breakup a while ago while he was going through a stressful time and didn't know what he wanted but he got back with me after 6 days. Anyway recently he's been telling me he loves me more than ever and even discussed having kids if we're still together after uni ( whoa) but last night he tells me he isn't sure he wants a relationship and split up with me again. Problem is I don't know whether to be upset because I don't know if it will be like before, last time I was totally heartbroken but the whole time he was still hugging and kissing me and stuff then we even slept together like when we were in a relationship until this guy at work advised me to do NC which I did (for about 2 days lol) and was just starting to get over him when he asked for me back. Anyway rambling now lol but before I left last night he said sorry, we'd still be the best of friends, kissed me goodbye several times, asked me to text him and come round his house friday to see him. What do you reckon, repeat of last time?
blueberry Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 ...if its only taking you a couple of days to start "geting over him" as you say - then cut your losses now! run for the hills!
Author VideoKid Posted March 30, 2006 Author Posted March 30, 2006 ...if its only taking you a couple of days to start "geting over him" as you say - then cut your losses now! run for the hills! Well I wouldn't really say getting over him, my whole life has changed as I practically lived at his house and did everything with him. Last time I cried for 5 days straight and by the time I'd just stopped crying over him we got back together. I guess I'm not crying over it this time because I expect him to come back.
blueberry Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 ahh...that happened with me and my hubby too. he threatened to walk out so many times and yet he always came back - after a while i stopped believing the severity of the situation. have there been more bad times than good lately?
Author VideoKid Posted March 30, 2006 Author Posted March 30, 2006 I thought we were getting along great, we've had our share of petty arguements and stupidity in the past like everyone has but recently, like I said, he told me he loved me more than ever and started talking about a future together! Obviously he was fairly serious about me as we've been together a year but he's not really the type of guy to discuss what he wants in the future so I felt great when he said that ... even though I know we're still fairly young and anything could happen it made me feel for once that he was serious about us. We got into a stupid fight about the gym Sunday, it was really just a bit of hurt feelings and thats what brought it all on, apparently thats not the reason we split up though, he said he loved me and everything but didn't know if he wanted a relationship right now. Obviously if he's still kissing me and still wants us to hang out he still wants to be round me but doesn't want our relationship ... I dunno.
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