Guest Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 so my ex called me at 6am the other day after NC since we broke up two weeks ago...he broke up with me b/c he said i called him too much and couldn't give him his space.. and anyway, he didnt leave a msg or anything.... so like the dumb ex i am, i called back and we talked and he was the same rude ex, said he accidentally called my #, that he must have rolled over (on his flip phone and randomly chosen MY name out of his phone book) so i know that was BS. he told me to quit crying over spilled milk and blah blah blah.... well we got off the phone, of course i was crying and he called me back... well when he called the # i was at a friends house (i thought the only way he'd answer his phone is if he didn't know the #) and my friend answered... well my friend is a friend i've had for years....and he hates to see me go through this..he thought i was treated like crap and he'd seen me cry many times over this ex. so he told my ex that he was my new BF and to leave me alone... well my ex went crazy and called me and cussed me out...called the guy back and told him to watch out that i was crazy and lunie and i'd pull the wool over his eyes..etc... he called me again and said he really hadn't meant for us to be over that he just needed time and wanted me to become independent and not depend on him so much (he said i wasn't giving him enough space prior to the breakup...and i probably wasnt) but why tell me that s*** now??? is it b/c he thinks i have a new man??? he told me he had to talk to me so he came over and hugged me and told me how bad he wanted to be with me but didnt want to be let down (that i couldnt give him his space) and i told him that i didnt have a new man, that my friend was just trying to help me get over him... and we sat there and held each other all night...i didnt want to let go in the morning...cause i thought i'd never see him again... and he told me not to worry that he'd be over that night... to make a long story short... he didn't come over...nor did he call me back like he said he would... he told me he had a lot of things to do and he was busy and thats why he couldnt come over...yet when i called his house his roommate said he wasn't there... so why the hell send me these mixed signals??? why be one way one night and the total opposite the next... what the hell do i do??? i love this guy to death and i know if i keep going back i'll never get over him.these past two weeks have been nothing but pure hell... i have dreams about him every night... i really thought he wanted to be with me... do i call him anymore or wait for him to call me??? or forget the whole thing. i really feel like i'm addicted... i cried and cried and cried when i found out he went out... he hasn't seen me in like two whole weeks...so why wouldn't he want to be with me??? and if he didn't then why couldn't he just say that..
MadDog Posted March 31, 2006 Posted March 31, 2006 Maybe you should just forget about him. Just an idea. MD
Cappe Posted April 2, 2006 Posted April 2, 2006 "he called me again and said he really hadn't meant for us to be over that he just needed time and wanted me to become independent and not depend on him so much (he said i wasn't giving him enough space prior to the breakup...and i probably wasnt)" He want's you to become independent so he can be with you? If he was so independent,he'd stop playing games with your head and move on.Look next time he phone's you tell him."Leave me alone,I want nothing to do with you anymore." and put the phone down. I'm with MadDog on this one,forget about him.It's easier said than done,we know but one way you won't forget about him is if you keep letting him in your life. Your choice.
blind_otter Posted April 2, 2006 Posted April 2, 2006 He just came over because he was jealous when he thought you had a new BF. Get a new phone number and forget this guy.
alphamale Posted April 2, 2006 Posted April 2, 2006 He just came over because he was jealous when he thought you had a new BF. Get a new phone number and forget this guy. b_0....your "to-the-point" and "take-no-prisoners" style of responses are become more and more like mine every day
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