LN8840K Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 Call leave a message ...no call back call leave 2nd message ...no call back 1 day later she sends an email ..... she playing hard to get or not to get ? whatcha think
Walk Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 Have you read her email? I'd find it a lot better if you could add some information to your post. Maybe like.... I met the girl at a bar and begged for her number and now she won't return my phone call. Or the girl asked you to call her. Or her email said blow off. Or the opposite. Just some info man. A little outline of the story. People might want to post a reply if you were able to give some depth to your question.
Author LN8840K Posted March 30, 2006 Author Posted March 30, 2006 she is an ex started talking again and we were emailing back and forth, 90% of the time she responds right away, with an occasional phone call. I emailed and said I may be in her town, but did not make plans with her she emailed back with chit chat, when I got there I called, no return call ..called the day I was leaving with no call back, then I get home to her email. the email she sent was general chit chat and a hope everything was going well, no mention of me calling. that better ?
SuperMonk Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 Dunno, I'm kinda through girls playing phone games like that or avoiding the situation entirely. Usually i write them off and look for other girls, I mean if she was honestly at least being respectful she'd call back. 2-3 calls and no response, that is bad. You may rationalize to yourself "Hmm, maybe she is doing some kinda initiation ritual" no buddy, if you want to be in a relationship a bad start predicts a bad relationship. At this point and time, pull back and maybe try to contact her a month from now, but look for other girls.
Delectable Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 Maybe it is because she is an ex and the type of communication you are feeling entitled to is that of someone more committed? Your entry is very vague. It is not clear if you are attempting to reconcile with her...if you are I believe she is sending you a clear message that she is not interested.
Author LN8840K Posted March 30, 2006 Author Posted March 30, 2006 we were talking quite a bit almost daily untill this happened
Walk Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 Are you sure she got the phone messages, or knew you had called? I've had people say they called me, yet I don't have a voice message, no did it list it on my caller idea. But they SWEAR they left a message. Why don't you ask why she didn't answer you call? Maybe she didn't know you were planning on being there that day specifically? Or something came up last minute. Or she might not have wanted to see you. At the least she could give you an answer on whether she got the call that day or not. Might help you decide if she's being immature, or if something honestly came up that she couldn't avoid.
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