sexyLMC Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 right ive fallen totally over my head inlove with this guy i mean i really he is the 1st thing i think about in the morning and the last at night. the thing is hes sort of my ex we was never really together and now were sex buddies e.c.t what ever you like to call it.. when ever i bring up the subject of us being together he gets all worried and changes the subject but serously i cant get him out of my head i will do anything for him i mean anything.. i cant handle this anymore.. im serously going to hit depression soon cause its just to much. i so wana win his heart.. this is such a mess can anyone help me? xx lisa xx
littlekitty Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 You need to ask him if he is willing to enter into a realtionship with you. Don't let him change the subject. Ask him straight, tell him it's on your mind constantly and that you want more. Is he up for it? You need to get an answer or you'll drive yourself potty. If the answer is that he can see you together... all good!! It the answer is no, he can't see you together then you need to walk away... completely!! FWB (f*** Buddies/Friends with Benefits) don't work when one of the people involved has feelings of more than friends for the other. Believe me, I spent 2 years trying to make someone (who had told me they only wanted sex/friendship from me) love me. You can't make someone fall for you, no matter how long, or how hard you try. What you can do is hurt yourself, and loose all self respect in the process!! It's horrible and gut wrenching waiting for someone to say what you want to hear. DO NOT put yourself through that.
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