Vicereine Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 I've found myself in a situation that has gotten confusing. It started off with this person (I'll call 'A') I met inviting me to the bar for his friend's birthday. I began to have this extreme attraction to him while there (no it wasn't the alcohol! ), which was quite surprising to me because I have not liked anyone other than on a friendship bases in the last 6 months. This was probably about 1.5 months ago and since then we hang out usually at least once a week, sometimes just us two or sometimes with a couple other friends. Other than that most of our interaction and communication is via MSN. In the beginning I found it quite obvious he took a liking to me as well. Lately though I'm no longer sure what he thinks of me. In the beginning he asked if I liked him more than a friend, I said yes and he was happy about that, then said he had something to ask me but decided to wait until we hung out..I assumed he wanted to start dating. When we talked on msn he would stay up all night to chat, always saying he was going in half an hour etc. We've also fooled around a couple times..though I know that doesn't always mean something, I've had my fun with friends before .There are more examples but this will get too long . However as time went by nothing more seemed to be coming out of it, his friend (I'll call 'B'), who also likes me, keeps saying that 'A' tells him he likes me but isn't sure what to do.. my only guess is that maybe he still isn't over his ex gf (3yr relationship that ended sometime in January I think). I can totally understand this, I just wish he wouldn't keep me in the dark. Now to add to this another friend said 'A' told him he wishes/hopes/thinks (something like that) that I would go out with 'B'.. but he told me he doesn't remember exactly what 'A' said so he might be wrong. I know not to take what other's say too seriously because of misinterpretation. Idealy I know I should ask him but for some reason I'm having trouble doing that, I guess because I'm so unsure. The situation wouldn't be so bad had it not started the way it did, because now I wonder why things have changed. Was it just a lust at first sight kind of thing? Or maybe he decided to back off because he's still not over his ex? I don't know if I should just let things be and see where they go or what.
Author Vicereine Posted March 29, 2006 Author Posted March 29, 2006 I guess I should have waited awhile longer before posting this, apparently that friend spoke to 'A' yesterday and showed me this message in regards to him hooking 'A' up with this other girl and his view on me: "ill f^ckin hook up with who ever i want im not into that b!tch". Now I know them well enough to not take that name personally, that is just how they refer to girls and I realize that was a conversation between two immature boys. Now I suppose I am a little disappointed, however I also experienced less interest in him, which is why I'm not too hurt by this, I guess I was just holding onto something coming out of it (like I said, I haven't liked anyone in 6 months). The part that bothers me though is what could have happened to change how he felt about me? I already have past issues with this, someone seems so into you then it just fizzles away. I can't help but feel it's something I do.
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