kjo314 Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 Guys/Gals So i have taken this girl out and she calls me "so sweet" etc... and cute and a sweetheart. We don't talk much on the phone and have only been out twice...though I am really getting to know her and I am enjoying it. We are meeting tomorrow for lunch and then she wants to go out Saturday but she doesn't want me to know what she has planned. Am I doing the right thing right now...taking it slow.. or am I going to slow....should I go in for a kis on saturday.. we have hugged and laughed and it has been a good time?? Help...If oyu need more info..ask
Author kjo314 Posted March 29, 2006 Author Posted March 29, 2006 Like right now I told her I was excited about seeing her tomorrow and she texted me "Oh you are so sweet...I'll see you tomorrow"
mjk Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 Ummmmmm....I think you are just fine! You have gone out twice, didn't come on to her like a jerk, she is making the plans for, and with you, and you both seem happy. The only thing I'd go for on your next date is having fun. That "kiss" will come soon enough believe me. Why force it? Have a blast!
monkey00 Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 Like right now I told her I was excited about seeing her tomorrow and she texted me "Oh you are so sweet...I'll see you tomorrow" Guys and girls randomly use the sweet/cute thing without much thought. Even if it's on friends of the opposite sex. the text she wrote, sounds like you could be in the friends zone. in this fashion it also means "oh you're so nice...ill see you tomorrow." when women use the nice line it often means the friends zone. just my opinion. Do what you want.
TheSwordfish Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 Act like a man and kiss her (No not a surprise kiss on the cheek, just do the natural thing and find a way to create a good moment to do so). I think you are fine, you can be sure she likes you, so act like it.
hindsight Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 if shes just liking your attention then she'll probably do the typical girl game and talk about another guy or conveniently run into a guy wherever you two go since shes making the plans.Id just go and hangout and see if she acts genuine or not
Author kjo314 Posted March 29, 2006 Author Posted March 29, 2006 she has never talked about another guy since we have been out...she is really shy... I don't know what to think. I have gotten hugs twice so I don't know what to do next... we are getting coffee this afternoon... and are going out on saturday.. what do you think?
Author kjo314 Posted March 29, 2006 Author Posted March 29, 2006 swordfish....how can i be sure that she likes me??? is she sending me good signals??or what?
monkey00 Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 swordfish....how can i be sure that she likes me??? is she sending me good signals??or what? kiss her and find out... you know she's shy already, so do the deed.
Author kjo314 Posted March 29, 2006 Author Posted March 29, 2006 How can you take it to the next step with a shy girl... should I jsut go for the gold on the next date.... or wait for it a little longer??? I don't quite know what to do hear... advice?
Author kjo314 Posted March 29, 2006 Author Posted March 29, 2006 Ok so we went for coffee this afternoon and we played a game and she said she wanted to take me out on Saturday and I had no choice...I bought her a bear from where I was on Spring break and she loved it. she named it after my middle name......Are these good signs.... on saturday should i try for a kiss???
Author kjo314 Posted March 29, 2006 Author Posted March 29, 2006 It seems as though she has taken her dating ad offline too... from what I know I am the only guy that is taking her out... is this a good thing you think??
jerbear Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 I think you have a winner! GO for a kiss darn it!
chryssy83 Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 I think that it sounds like it could be good. Tell me about the hugs, though. Are they long hugs where lots of parts of the body touch or shorter with less torso-contact?
SuperMonk Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 Man, I dunno about being called sweet/cute. I see this as a bad thing if I'm not having sex with her.
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