PlentyLV007 Posted March 27, 2006 Posted March 27, 2006 I like someone very much....our personalities click, attraction is there and well everything else....Now of course it's too late because I'm seeing someone I like. Yet he never called, never innitated going out and never had me....so why does he keep flirting? Why does he keep saying things to me but, never does or did anything??? I got another firty message today and I'm curious??? To why hasn't he. So I ask...and he answered...school and I have every intention on us hanging out...I said well now it's too late...I'm just curious...to why the hesitation...why? Then he says...well now I can't because you are seeing someone....and I said yes.... I told him I just don't understand why he never initiated if he claimed to want to date.... He asnwered...fine...so be it.... What the hell does that mean...I'm not going to lie I'm so irritated...I've liked this guy for about almost a year...and we've always flirted and now....well....it's frustrating....
jerbear Posted March 27, 2006 Posted March 27, 2006 Maybe he is shy? Or the signals you give him are mixed? Don't really know the situation.
Author PlentyLV007 Posted March 27, 2006 Author Posted March 27, 2006 If a girl is telling you that she likes you...and making it obvious???? what is hard about that?
blind_otter Posted March 27, 2006 Posted March 27, 2006 Maybe he has a GF and is a flirt. Maybe he's a closet homosexual. There's really no telling and it's a waste of mental energy to even wonder.
jerbear Posted March 27, 2006 Posted March 27, 2006 If a girl is telling you that she likes you...and making it obvious???? what is hard about that? Ah... maybe what B_O described. Only a flirt to see how far he goes. Maybe he is afraid or doesn't get it.
noclobber Posted March 28, 2006 Posted March 28, 2006 I like someone very much....our personalities click, attraction is there and well everything else....Now of course it's too late because I'm seeing someone I like. Yet he never called, never innitated going out and never had me....so why does he keep flirting? Why does he keep saying things to me but, never does or did anything??? I got another firty message today and I'm curious??? To why hasn't he. So I ask...and he answered...school and I have every intention on us hanging out...I said well now it's too late...I'm just curious...to why the hesitation...why? Then he says...well now I can't because you are seeing someone....and I said yes.... I told him I just don't understand why he never initiated if he claimed to want to date.... He asnwered...fine...so be it.... What the hell does that mean...I'm not going to lie I'm so irritated...I've liked this guy for about almost a year...and we've always flirted and now....well....it's frustrating.... hey babe, is this guy the marine corps guy? and the one you are dating now - is he the "i need you all the time" nice guy?
amerikajin Posted March 28, 2006 Posted March 28, 2006 He's either a gamer or a wussbag. Either he's a playboy who has too many women to handle, or he's just too chickenbleep to actually go out and risk something with you.
MadDog Posted March 28, 2006 Posted March 28, 2006 PLV, I think you just need to let the frustration go. Think of it this way. You two have supposedly had chemistry for a good year. If he didn't make a move during that whole time, he never will. In all likelihood, he's probably a wussbag like amerikajin mentioned. If he were a player, he would have made a move pretty quickly. What you have to realize is that whatever the reason, he's not one to take matters into his own hands. Do you really think you'll remain interested in him if you have to make everything happen in the relationship? I doubt it, especially from what I have heard about the type of girl you are. Just focus on the guy you're dating now and forget about this dude. MD
Author PlentyLV007 Posted March 29, 2006 Author Posted March 29, 2006 hey babe, is this guy the marine corps guy? and the one you are dating now - is he the "i need you all the time" nice guy? Not this is not the Marine guy.
Author PlentyLV007 Posted March 29, 2006 Author Posted March 29, 2006 PLV, I think you just need to let the frustration go. Think of it this way. You two have supposedly had chemistry for a good year. If he didn't make a move during that whole time, he never will. In all likelihood, he's probably a wussbag like amerikajin mentioned. If he were a player, he would have made a move pretty quickly. What you have to realize is that whatever the reason, he's not one to take matters into his own hands. Do you really think you'll remain interested in him if you have to make everything happen in the relationship? I doubt it, especially from what I have heard about the type of girl you are. Just focus on the guy you're dating now and forget about this dude. MD Hmmm Good one...but, you know it's like when a girl calls and calls you but, likes you and doesn't let u hit it...it's like what the hell...what happened? It's one of those itch's that I wanted to scratch.
MadDog Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 Hmmm Good one...but, you know it's like when a girl calls and calls you but, likes you and doesn't let u hit it...it's like what the hell...what happened? It's one of those itch's that I wanted to scratch. There are girls like that. I call them sluttish prudes. They go around like they are wild and will give it up but they are actually prude and don't give it up to anyone. I just don't waste my time with those type of girls and move on to ones who are game. I don't think there is a guy counterpart to that so I still think that guy in question is just chicken. MD
MusicWoman Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 There are girls like that. I call them sluttish prudes. MD :lmao::lmao:i love that!!!:lmao: lol Are you liking both guys equally? Whatever guy your dating right now, its probably not gonna be working out if theres this other guy in the mix. Maybe you should really sit down with the mixed signals guy and finally find out whats going on with that..in person
Author PlentyLV007 Posted March 29, 2006 Author Posted March 29, 2006 :lmao::lmao:i love that!!!:lmao: lol Are you liking both guys equally? Whatever guy your dating right now, its probably not gonna be working out if theres this other guy in the mix. Maybe you should really sit down with the mixed signals guy and finally find out whats going on with that..in person No I don't like the guys both equally. Actually now I'm just ignoring the fact that he didn't pursue me. I just wanted to hear some points and thoughts on it. I really like the new guy...a lot. There are just somethings that I don't but, hey nobody is perfect!!! I'm not the type of person to change people...I feel that you should accept and appreciate a person for the way they are. Not change them into what I want them to be because that's just not right... I totally think that my old guy...ROOK...WIMP..... :lmao: I'm sorry but, if I had a good chance on a nice piece of steak I wouldn't pass it up.... HELLO MCFLY!!!
starlight2025 Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 I think the girl should be the one to pursue. If she wants me then she has a mouth to come out and say it. I no longer pursue women. The ball is in their court to reach out and express interest or not. I would be turned off though by a woman who wants to buy me a drink or lunch. I'd probably take off running.
MadDog Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 I think the girl should be the one to pursue. If she wants me then she has a mouth to come out and say it. I no longer pursue women. The ball is in their court to reach out and express interest or not. I would be turned off though by a woman who wants to buy me a drink or lunch. I'd probably take off running. Are you either: 1. A celebrity 2. A professional athelete? If not, your "I'm going to wait for women to approach me" method might not work out so well. Let us know how it turns out though, I might be totally wrong. MD
MadDog Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 I'm not the type of person to change people...I feel that you should accept and appreciate a person for the way they are. Not change them into what I want them to be because that's just not right... That's a great attitude that none of the girls I've become involved with seem to have. They always think that they can make me "better." They didn't appreciate perfection when they saw it. They didn't deserve me. MD
Author PlentyLV007 Posted April 3, 2006 Author Posted April 3, 2006 I think the girl should be the one to pursue. If she wants me then she has a mouth to come out and say it. I no longer pursue women. The ball is in their court to reach out and express interest or not. I would be turned off though by a woman who wants to buy me a drink or lunch. I'd probably take off running. Then your probably related to this guy!!!! :lmao: I'm sorry but I don't understand why u would run!!?? An attractive woman wants to buy you lunch/drink and your going to take off running!!! C'mon what is the world coming too. I haven't turned down a woman yet! =)
Author PlentyLV007 Posted April 3, 2006 Author Posted April 3, 2006 They always think that they can make me "better." They didn't appreciate perfection when they saw it. They didn't deserve me. MD Has it ever occured to women that maybe they are a better person w/ you!!!??? Or a better woman because of you!!!??? Seriously....they didn't deserve you!!! Dammm women!
MadDog Posted April 4, 2006 Posted April 4, 2006 Has it ever occured to women that maybe they are a better person w/ you!!!??? Or a better woman because of you!!!??? Seriously....they didn't deserve you!!! Dammm women! Yeah. My ex realized this only after we had already broken up and it was too late. She told me how great I was and how she was stupid for not realizing it. And she said just how much of a better person she was when she was with me. Talk about the classical mistake of not appreciating something until it's gone. Well it's her loss. I'm definately meeting a lot of hot girls and some of them might even have potential beyond the WMTYM. Yeah, most girls don't deserve me. MD
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