longlegzs80 Posted March 27, 2006 Posted March 27, 2006 I been told I am very attractive and sexy, but I find I don't feel sexy or attractive. I need to change my attitude towards things but I want to feel sexy and attractive. What things do you do when your having this problem and want to make yourself sexy and attractive looking to others?
Curmudgeon Posted March 27, 2006 Posted March 27, 2006 Nothin'! People either accept me as I am and find me attractive or interesting or they don't. I'm clean, neat, well-dressed, polite, considerate, conversant and reasonably intelligent. I also have a good sense of humor. If that's not enough then they need to look elsewhere. By the way, with long legs, how could you be anything but sexy?
Author longlegzs80 Posted March 27, 2006 Author Posted March 27, 2006 LOL. I like your response. I am somewhat of a person like you, but it would be nice to have a sex appeal look, have just something to drive men wild. Maybe I do drive men wild, but I too want to do this for myself. Maybe start by dressing more feminine and sexy would help.
Curmudgeon Posted March 27, 2006 Posted March 27, 2006 Use those long legs to your advantage but remember, not too much, just enough and always leave them wanting more!
lulu2go Posted March 28, 2006 Posted March 28, 2006 Invest some time in yourself. Visit your hairdresser, get your hair done. This is personally something I like to do for myself as well as a bit of retail therapy. Love shopping, show me a female who honestly doesn't! Get together with good friends and go out, socialize. Do whateva does it for you, exercise, get your nails done... If you have already been told that you are attractive and sexy - there's no need to overthink it ....just take their word for it!! Then you can get busy spoiling yourself. Don't forget to have fun and then you may find a change of attitude will start to follow. This is something I've had work on myself and at times I still am but I try to kick all negative thoughts and feelings out as soon as they pop up and get busy doing something positive.
mini696 Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 Its all about appearance... So look around at other girls you find attractive, and try to focus on what it is about them you find appealing. Maybe a short skirt and a top that defines your waist are good places to start.
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