NightsInWhiteSatin Posted March 27, 2006 Posted March 27, 2006 My boyfriend works 7 days a week and funny hours both days and nights. He never has anytime to give us a proper relationship and he's always letting me down which hurts us both. We love eachother so much but this is driving us apart and we will end up arguing and hating eachother if we carry on like this and he can't bare us starting to hate eachother so last week we broke up then got back together two days later to give it another go and last night we broke up again. ************************************************** ******** These were his exact words well near enough exact- I could never hate you i love you. but that doesnt mean that we should be together now i dont know what i think at the minute my heads doing somersaults, i really think we shouldnt be together...i cant bear the thought of us hating each other, and that will happen if we carry on like this i just want to be there for you all the time in 2 months or something it may be different, i dont see what we can do to make it better..my heart just isnt into it any more. I love you but i need to sort my life out, and I cant do that with toun right now i love you, you are beautiful but i cant watch us disentegrate like this im sat here crying to myself, but this has to happen i couldnt bare us hating each other or having a massive fight im sorry this has to happen. I love you so much, to carry on is stupid. we can talk every day, phone, text, msn everything im here no matter what and in a few months, weeks whatever, things may be different i love you ************************************************** ******** I love him so much... I wrote him a letter telling him that we can't be friends because its torturue and unfair etc and that i'll always love him I'm wondering if i've done the right thing because he might just need a few months to get things sorted...and then we can be together properly..... please help me guys i love him so much and it hurts so badly...
Curmudgeon Posted March 27, 2006 Posted March 27, 2006 I wrote him a letter telling him that we can't be friends because its torturue and unfair etc and that i'll always love him. Not good at all. Why the finality? That doesn't really leave the door open to changes that could come and may totally discourage him. It doesn't sound like love. It sounds like an ultimatum.
Author NightsInWhiteSatin Posted March 27, 2006 Author Posted March 27, 2006 The finality is because he might not be able to sort his life out for years and i'll be around hanging on to every look, every smile, every touch, every word and he might change his mind about me at the end of it all...and i really want to be his friend dont get me wrong...and someone i have alot of respect for said if i carry on seeing him as a friend im just going to be going home crying and broken hearted all the time after i've seen him and it'll mess me up. When he first asked for us to be friends i was all for it but people keep telling things that go against it and theyre things that make sense. This is really hard...
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