SoDeepWithinYou Posted March 26, 2006 Posted March 26, 2006 My boyfriend works 7 days a week and funny hours both days and nights. He never has anytime to give us a proper relationship and he's always letting me down which hurts us both. We love eachother so much but this is driving us apart and we will end up arguing and hating eachother if we carry on like this and he can't bare us starting to hate eachother so last week we broke up then got back together two days later to give it another go and last night we broke up again. ********************************************************** These were his exact words well near enough exact- I could never hate you i love you. but that doesnt mean that we should be together now i dont know what i think at the minute my heads doing somersaults, i really think we shouldnt be together...i cant bear the thought of us hating each other, and that will happen if we carry on like this i just want to be there for you all the time in 2 months or something it may be different, i dont see what we can do to make it better..my heart just isnt into it any more. I love you but i need to sort my life out, and I cant do that with toun right now i love you, you are beautiful but i cant watch us disentegrate like this im sat here crying to myself, but this has to happen i couldnt bare us hating each other or having a massive fight im sorry this has to happen. I love you so much, to carry on is stupid. we can talk every day, phone, text, msn everything im here no matter what and in a few months, weeks whatever, things may be different i love you ********************************************************** I love him so much... I wrote him a letter telling him that we can't be friends because its torturue and unfair etc and that i'll always love him I'm wondering if i've done the right thing because he might just need a few months to get things sorted...and then we can be together properly..... please help me guys i love him so much and it hurts so badly...
Author SoDeepWithinYou Posted March 27, 2006 Author Posted March 27, 2006 someone please post a reply....
lehen99 Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 I think I might have an explantation for you. If he is working those kind of hours (I do this by the way) He is probably not thinking very clearly. I work all kinds of weird hours, and let me tell you it messes with my head alot. My girlfriend of 4 years recently left me because she didn't think I love her anymore, but with all the stress I was under It was kind of hard to show. I say just give him a little time to sort things our and hopefully he will realize what is going on. Sound to me like he cares for you, he just has alot on his mind. Hopefully this helps and hopefully everything works out for you Cheer Up.
francis Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 despite everything, this guy is telling you this; 'at this moment in time, i need to be released from the demands of this relationship' my advice, set him free. let him go. that means, no begging, no crying, so appeals for him to reconsider. just agree to it. his words may suggest a reconciliation further on down the line, but don't place too much emphasis on that. don't hold your breath for that to happen. i've heard it before, and generally, it's a gentle let down, for him and you. he may mean it, but by the time a 'couple of months' rolls around, you could both have moved on to someone new. he cannot live up to your expectations and demands as a boyfriend because he has other commitments. maybe its time to be with someone who can put your first and actually give you what you want in a relationship.
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