Guest Posted March 26, 2006 Posted March 26, 2006 The wife knows. Not just knows and doesn't care, but knows and is a part of the A? Knows and talks to the H about it, relives the H's affair in their bed? What do you do if you find out you've gotten sucked into some weird sick fantasy between the H and W?
Blind Illusion Posted March 27, 2006 Posted March 27, 2006 Is the OW really THAT good that she can impart sexual satisfaction to others without ever encountering them? The only problem with this scenario is that most extramarital relationships have a vast degree of emotional stimulation too. Would that same husband discuss how he cried to the OW or shared his fears also. If so, then right you are....that could be considered a sick fantasy one might not want to be part of.
lovernotafighter Posted March 27, 2006 Posted March 27, 2006 I'd sell my story to the Lifetime channel and make fortune
whichwayisup Posted March 27, 2006 Posted March 27, 2006 Well, maybe they have an open marriage. Which still means he isn't going to leave his wife, and you'll still be the OW.
JayKay Posted March 27, 2006 Posted March 27, 2006 If she's open and willing to let him have the A, maybe in reality what she really craves is a threesome. He will probably, at some point, suggest it. We knew a couple that did that; the H started out having an affair with the OW. The wife found out. She actually accepted it and eventually they moved the OW in with them and they all got it on together for a while. If that's a disturbing scenario to you, perhaps you need to get out now.
My_Other_I Posted March 28, 2006 Posted March 28, 2006 Everyone wins? Or the affair won't happen because it won't have its magic anymore. I think it's sick. But at least it's out in the open. Affairs are sick. Knowing is better then not knowing. You have an option to make a choice. Usually the wife does not.
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