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Trying things again with EX GF(probs)


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Well guys and gals, It's been a rough ride. Alot of girls, and i always seem to find a problem with them and if i don't i become obsessed and annoy them until they grow distant. I am so stupid lol

 

Anyways, My Ex gf errica is one of those girls that i could not find anything wrong with. She is very attractive, Fun to be around, I can go to the bar with her and we'll hang out like best buds or go for a romantic dinner together and act like lovers.

 

She had to move away for a few months, so we called it off.

 

She just called me 3 days ago and we started chatting, she seemed very anxious to see me and i was too. So we decided to start things off on a casual fun level and go to a club. I saw her and my jaw hit the floor, the spark is there still. HAD A BLAST! DANCED and DRANK until 3am.

 

it got hot and heavy in the back of the cab, her pants came off and well you can figure what we did. lol I'm ashamed now of what we did but we were both extremely drunk. The cab driver didn't mind though lol. Anyways, the next day she went from attentive and excited to see me to, Meh whatever. She called me a few times and said "lets do something" but when we made plans she'd not be ready or just say she didn't wanna go anymore.

 

Now when we were dating before she had this same problem, She would make plans with me and then Not call me back, not pick up the phone or not show up. It was a problem and i brought it up, she fixed it and it was great for about a week and then it went back to the same old.

 

I'm sorry if i'm being confusing people, i really do need help so if you aren't following what i'm trying to get at here is a sum up.

 

 

EX gf, In the past she would make plans with me and simply stand me up. I raised this issue with her, she corrected it but only for a short period of time.

She moved away, She is now back, She wants to try us out again but She is back to doing the same stuff she promised she wouldn't do.

 

I like her, she always says she really likes me but i'm getting alittle suspicious.

 

She's a party girl, I'm not really a party guy anymore. She likes to get high and drunk all the time, I will not smoke weed but i will get drunk every once in awhile.

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great, you got yourself a f-ck buddy. Just wait till a better dude comes along and sweeps off her feet before you start getting stood up again.

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:confused: Sometimes, a leopard just can't change its spots, no matter how much it wants to.
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i know everyone goes about things in defferent ways, but when i really really like someone alot the last thing i want to do is miss a call from them or lose out on the chance to spend time with them.... my phone is glued to my side in case they ring me. so i just find it funny that someone can like someone so much and ignore calls and cancell plans. maybe u should give her a taste of her own medicine.

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