longlegzs80 Posted March 25, 2006 Posted March 25, 2006 I find I am very much so attracted to this one guy at work. He seems so nice and is very friendly to me and the more and more I see him at work which is sometimes very little, I find him so attractive. Just something about him that turns me on. Anywho, I pick up my paycheck on Thursday from him which he usually hands them out and I was wondering if something like this could work. Here is what I am thinking: During the time I smile, say hi, he gives me my paycheck and says have a nice day, would it be odd of me to put a sheet of paper on his desk with my name and number on it, maybe put it under a book or something. He would be bound to notice and wonder what I put under his reading material. Would that be very odd? Maybe have my name, number and a call if interested for a cup of coffee or something on those lines. Just something to show that hey I am interested without me saying, HEY I FIND YOU VERY HOT AND ARE YOU SINGLE? What do you think? Is it strange????? I'm a very shy person at first so doing this might help me out since I can't seem to strike up conversation.
whichwayisup Posted March 25, 2006 Posted March 25, 2006 Smile at him and build up your confidence. I don't know if the slip your name/number and 'call if you're interested in going out for coffee sometime' is a good idea. Maybe others think it would be OK, I just think a more direct approach is better. Do some snooping, ask someone you trust to find out if he is seeing anyone or is married. In the meantime, say HI, hope you have a good day, (not all at once, spread it out, lol, when you see him throughout the day) have a wonderful weekend, and then when you feel ready, ask him for coffee. Just force yourself to do it!
Gorgeous Posted March 27, 2006 Posted March 27, 2006 I've always hated the "pass him a note" method. For me, it's been a deal-breaker from the get-go. But that's just me. What do I like? Strike up a conversation with him. Walk up to him with good posture, and a smile. Ask how his weekend was, and what he did. Was he out drinking? Where? Is that a cool place to go? "Wow sounds like fun! I'd like to check that out some time, maybe I'll call up my girlfriends and go there next saturday, would you like to meet us? Great! Well hey I'm in a bit of a rush so let me give you my number so we can coordinate and I can get directions or whatever." Natural conversation is always the best. Don't approach him with a goal though, just make small talk. Maybe it'll take a few different approaches before you actually initiate the "we should hang out" lines.
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