hugznkisses21 Posted March 24, 2006 Posted March 24, 2006 Ok in realtion to my issue before of him saying he will call and doesnt. This just started happening this week. Well he had done it all week and im understanding of someone being busy but i dont like it when someone repeatively says they will do something and dont...over and over...once twice on but over and over. So my guy i have been seeing was supose to call last night and didnt like he said he would so before i went to bed i called him....no answer so i left a voicemail saying that Im not too sure what is going on and if you want to continue speaking with me, i understand you are busy but u keep saying u will call but never end up following through.....i told him it seems up in the air whats going on sicne he came on so strong the first three weeks (since we slept together this happened) which is why i dont like it also. Well i feel lousy for leaving the message but i feel it is only respectful behavior....Now i am msning him and he isnt responding I think i messed up guys
max003 Posted March 24, 2006 Posted March 24, 2006 sorry honey, but i think you've been used. If you've already slept with him and he's backing off then he's probably got what he wanted from you. He's avoiding you because he's too much of a coward to face you. Sounds harsh, but you have to deal with it and move on. He's a immature coward, a little boy who hasnt grown up yet. Once you really got to know him you would probably realise that there isnt that much to him, and nothing to like.
MadDog Posted March 24, 2006 Posted March 24, 2006 Yeah, you're the not the one who messed up, he is. It sounds like you two aren't too serious yet. I'd say take this as a sign of things to come. There are people who habitually say they'll do things and for one reason or another, they never do. What you have to decide is whether you can deal with someone like that--everytime they say they'll do something, you basically have to assume they won't or else you'll end up disappointed 9 out of 10 times. Personally I think it'd be wise for you to cut your losses now and date someone who is true to their word. Isn't that one of the desirable qualities in a man anyway? A man who always pulls through when they say they'll do something? MD
PlentyLV007 Posted March 24, 2006 Posted March 24, 2006 WHAT A JERK!!! Oh well his loss! I know your feeling really sensitive right now and it's understandable. Now what I suggest you do, since you left him that message last night and you text him...that's it.... Delete his number and if his number comes up...don't pick up. Sweetie...go with your gut instinct....you know what's up now...so either you do something about it or still be the victim. Don't be the victim...your too good of a person for that!!
basscatcher Posted March 24, 2006 Posted March 24, 2006 I met a guy last summer that did this to me... 2-3 weeks got what he wanted and then backed off. So I backed off and then I got drunk dialing and drunk text msgs to come party.. I told him: Dude, To late you snooze you loose.. baa byyyy and I hung up and haven't heard from hm since. I was just a toy to him he wanted to keep playing with.. Country Catholic girls---once tasted hard to throw away... I think you've been duped like I was... Lick your wounds, clean yourself up, walk forward and say to yourself "his loss" "I'm better then that and I deserve better!" Once a woman sleeps with a guy she is attracted too and interested in she pretty much stuck her heart to him..
max003 Posted March 24, 2006 Posted March 24, 2006 yeah i hate when that happens, i wish blokes attached the same importance/intimacy to sex as we do. and it makes getting over him that much harder when he wont tell you why!
PlentyLV007 Posted March 24, 2006 Posted March 24, 2006 and it makes getting over him that much harder when he wont tell you why! That's the worst ones!!!! They dont' tell you why!!! I ask!!! They still lie about it...I rather hear the truth...even if it hurts....
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