daisyduke1234 Posted March 24, 2006 Posted March 24, 2006 Hi - me again, I'm afraid. Well thanks to everybody who replied to my earlier posting asking whether the guy liked me or not. I've decided I have to tell him how I feel for my own sanity and the fact that I just can't stop thinking about him.... I was thinking of telephoning him tonight to see whether he'd like to meet up for a few hours over the weekend.... However, I've just had a very long chat with a close female friend - she has never met this guy, and she said something that makes me think maybe/perhaps, and I really thought I could run this past you guys... She said he sounds like he could be gay? Her reasoning for this was that gay guys will do stuff like below, but never actually ask the girl out. Okay. Here is why. I told her that he had sent me romantic songs, had asked me to meet him to watch a sunset and had even asked my friend what the situation was with my boyfriend (EX - I hasten to add) and has already told my friend that when I was with ex I was mad as he treated me so very badly. However, he has emailed me to say that him and his old school pal are both searching for the "The One," that he had been out for dinner with some very attractive women, but they lacked depth. I work with a lot of gay guys and I asked one of them whether they thought he was gay, and he said yes. I asked why and he said because he was in touch with his feminine side and the type of music he liked to listen to. BUT then if he was gay, why would he be doing all of this, why would he be sending songs with very poignant lyrics. God, what do others think?!
Vertex Posted March 24, 2006 Posted March 24, 2006 I've sent people romantic songs with poignant lyrics and enjoy watching sunsets with a girl, and I also enjoy doing things that many would find "feminine," but I still like screwing the living daylights out of them later with screaming orgasms as they are tied to the bed... I don't think those indicators are enough to determine his sexual orientation.
prfrogkisser Posted March 24, 2006 Posted March 24, 2006 There is the term called Metrosexual. Men who appear gay but are not. Just be honest with him and please dont ask him if he is gay because if he is not he will be very offended. Men when they really like someone go out of their usual behavior to impress a girl. Dont over analyze everything. Just go with it and see what happens. You dont want to miss out on something wonderful. GEZZ... women... thats why i dont date them!!
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