real_diablo Posted March 24, 2006 Posted March 24, 2006 i had been with my ex for 6 years, we got engaged and then about 6 months later she started having some doubts. about 2 months ago she asked me for time apart and moved out, at the time i agreed to this time apart, though for the next 4 weeks or so i chased her... i didnt call her though i remained accessible to her. She kept saying she was confused and i couldnt handle it, she would tell me positive things and then negative and near the end basically didnt seem very interested in giving our relationship a 2nd chance. After 5 weeks i ended up breaking up with her and commenced NC and i have been finding it alot easier to deal with and although i still miss her, i dont want to be with someone who doesnt want to be with me. ive even told our mutual friends to not inform me of any info regarding her and to do likewise with her about me. i dont know if i'll get a second chance and i dont even know if i want one though i really dont understand why its all ended and I feel helpless not being able to do anything. Before implementing the NC with my friends i did hear she was basically miserable and not happy with herself though she says she isnt 'in love' with me though she is not willing to give us a 2nd chance?
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