real_diablo Posted March 24, 2006 Posted March 24, 2006 I broke up with my ex after 6 years together about 2 months ago. She has'nt been back to pick up the remainder of her things and i dont particularly want them at my place. Is the correct thing to do, box them up and send them to her new place or should i get them dropped off at her work place as this is more convenient?
Yasdnil Posted March 26, 2006 Posted March 26, 2006 Unless you are WANTING to cause her complete humiliation, go the extra mile and send them to her new place. No question.
SuperMonk Posted March 26, 2006 Posted March 26, 2006 ^^^ Don't do what women say. Burn it, throw it away, whatevers.
kaunis Posted March 26, 2006 Posted March 26, 2006 Yep, you are on the right track, real_diablo. You should ALWAYS give back things that belong to your ex! Unless, of course, he/she is a serial killer that might hurt you or so. It would be too cruel to both break someone's heart and then stealing from him/her. Treating somebody badly serves no purposes!! So, give her stuff back. In a box, through mail, whatever works best for you. As long as you give it back.
Curmudgeon Posted March 26, 2006 Posted March 26, 2006 Be the bigger and more considerate person. Mail them to her at her home. It's always nice to be able to look back and honestly say, "No regrets!"
Tas Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 Very similar situation like me, just posted 2 days ago http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t85119/ An update: next day I open thread, she emailed me mainly asking her staff back. I replied in a "ok let's arrange it but also wanna talk with you for everything nomatter where you're in your life" way, hopping to save it late than ever.
Safaria Posted March 29, 2006 Posted March 29, 2006 Just box them up and put them out of sight. If after a year she doesn't ask for them back donate the box to the Salvation Army. Dropping off her things at her job or her house is just letting her know you're still obsessed and worked up over her.
dr strangelove Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 Ok first off the longer that pile sits there, the more she has an excuse to come bug you. If you dont wish to see her or talk with her, lose the stuff. In the case that you do, well the stuff is always a good excuse. Otherwise doesnt matter where it goes to her work or elsewhere. Its in a closed box and no ones bussiness, depending if there is a receptionist easy enough to drop off sight unseen. Or you hold onto it and anything can happen from having the excuse laying around. A fling, a chat..etc.. ciao
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