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[Lost In WI]

Hello, I posted before but wasn't registered and got no replys.

I need advice. I broke up with my b/f of 2 years last week, because of how mad he gets at me for stupid stuff, never physical just mouthy.

 

I love him very much, but I felt he shouldn't be treating me this way when he is mad. He tells me now that he needs time and doesn't know if we should get back together.

 

Everything is good between us when he isn't mad at me, and he only stays mad for a lil bit, but still.

 

My main question is how long do I wait to see if he wants to try it again? He says he wont tell me what he is feeling because he feels he doesn't have to because we are not together, fine so I don't push it.

 

I asked him if we could set a date to talk about this and he said " I don't know about that atm"

 

I just don't want to waste my time waiting for him if he decides not to give us another go. I could be spending that time healing.

 

I think we have been through a lot and I believe we could work this out too, but as of now it seems I am getting the cold shoulder.

 

He did say before in the first few days after the break up that " you would still want to be with me?" He knows how I feel and where I stand.

 

He says he has not changed (well yeah its only been a week) I said to him how are you to change the way you are when you are not around me?

 

I am just looking for any advice please!

 

He has talked about getting married and he had wanted to do it soonish well engaged anyways but I never did get a ring.

[amaysngrace]

it sounds like he's playing you. i was married to a guy who was verbally abusive, and when you suggest you would get back with him, he knows he has control and you will tolerate this mistreatment from him. don't do it, please?? don't call him. let him go. he won't change.

 

just the fact that he brought up marriage but didn't give you a ring suggests what kind of guy he is.

 

please take back your power from this guy. he doesn't sound worthy of it. save your power for yourself. and demand better for yourself next time. and in the meantime, let him go and hold your head high!