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How to stop overanalzying when dating?


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I do it... unfortunately.

 

ANd it drives me insane at some points.. its like a friggin roller coaster.:(

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I think it's just a curse some of us have.

:)

 

I'm probably doing it right now, all over a silly email.

 

Though, thinking back on it, I only over-analyzed the relationships I actually gave a damn about, which hasn't been all of them.

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I think it's just a curse some of us have.

:)

 

I'm probably doing it right now, all over a silly email.

 

Though, thinking back on it, I only over-analyzed the relationships I actually gave a damn about, which hasn't been all of them.

 

Thats the thing though... if I didn't care, I wouldn't think about it.

 

Yet, I can' keep on putting my emotions through up and downs.....

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By realizing the following :

 

Dating should be fun and with multiple men . ( I am not talking about sleeping with any of them )

 

Dating is a fact and discovery mission.

 

Dating is going to either give you a Yes or a No as to a second date with the man.

 

Being committed only comes after a 3 month pre commit dating where the honeymoon phase has subsided and the truer person starts coming out...

 

Don't try to analyze what this meant or that meant . If you want clarification you need to ask that person directly what they meant " You know John when you said most women are gold diggers , what exactly did you mean by that ? " (As an example only )

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